Who would you choose?
@gracey_celine (106)
Philippines
7 responses
@biznizman01 (581)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
who would you choose? the one you love or the one who loves you? the question is unclear to me.
what if the one you love does not love you? and the one who loves you is the one you did not love? this question is more clear.
if this is what your trying to asked then I'll probably choose the one who loves me if these 2 are the only choice. why? simply becaue you know where you stand with the person who loves you. he/she will be loyal to you and be interested in everything about you. if that person has the best intention for you and he/she really cares for you and has a good heart, i believe sooner or later you fall for her/him.
@gracey_celine (106)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
hi! biznizman01 (",)
thank you for the clarifications. the thought is just the same anyway.
you've got a point on your opinion biznizman01.. i always believe in the line 'respect begets respect', respect is one of the most important aspects when we are in a relationship. like for me, even if that person really shows his interest to me and respected me of being i am and even if i don't love him that much or the way he loves me then his effort will not put in vain...
i usually don't go of what my heart really feels.. i have to weigh things out first...
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@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
I choose the one that loves me... I believe that love can be learn. Because if you choose the one that you love, it sounds like selfishness thinking of our own happiness. and time comes that, he/she will change and your love for him/her will fade away...
@gracey_celine (106)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
i really can't figure out how come choosing the one you love is selfishness already when in fact it is you who gives your love to the person that you chose? isn't it sounds risky? because you didn't know if the one you love stay only because he/she knew that you really love her/him and that he/she found security on you because you love him/her that much.
@Piratesware (2888)
• Indonesia
1 Mar 07
well I better choose the one I love, cause more care than another option.
@gracey_celine (106)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
that is your opinion but i must tell you, be sure that the one you love loves you in return.
@fairygreen (533)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
sounds familiar a lyrics to a song huh!...i would definitely choose the one who loves me simply because i wud be more secure and at peace.
@gracey_celine (106)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
that sounds even better but be sure to submit to him as his partner...
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@sdj3rd (65)
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
i would chose the one who loves me, because if she loves me, it is easier for me to lover her back, if i choose the one i l,ove i am not sure if she will love me back.
@holy_smoke (1)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
it is very hard to choose between the two, if you choose the one you love, you'll make yourself happy but if she/he doesnt love you, you might end up hurting yourelf loving her... if you choose the one that loves you,, you can make her happy but for a while.. coz you cant cheat your own heart, if you are not happy with her/him how can you make your partner happy????
