a super smart child
By itsjustmeb
@itsjustmeb (1212)
Canada
March 1, 2007 7:21pm CST
We have been told that my now four year old is very bright and smart for her age. She can hold intellectual conversations and she's only four. I have been told because she's so smart, she gets bored VERY easily. So what do you do for a child like this. I want to get some things which will stimulate her mind. Get her not so bored.
Thoughts?
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@patgalca (18391)
• Orangeville, Ontario
2 Mar 07
She does sound like she is advanced for her age but I wouldn't push it. She could slow down as she gets older. My children are 10 and 13 (11 and 14 this year). If a teacher told me one of them was so smart that they wanted to advance her a grade, I would say no. I wouldn't want to put extra pressure on a kid. You can expose your daughter to all sorts of things, like the other poster suggested, but I would take it with a grain of salt. Let her be a kid.
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@itsjustmeb (1212)
• Canada
2 Mar 07
Oh no, don't worry im not going to push anything on her. The only thing I want her to know is im open minded, and free will :)
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@Gigglygrrl (362)
• United States
2 Mar 07
Who is telling you your child is "very bright?" Most parents believe their children are smarter than most. 90% of the families at my school believe their child is "gifted." I am not saying your kids can't be smart I am just telling you to watch out for the lable trap. Take her to art openings or art museums, zoos, children's museums, etc. Give her lots of different experiences then talk to her about them. Find out what peaks her interest and follow her lead.
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@itsjustmeb (1212)
• Canada
2 Mar 07
Im not saying she's a gifted child, the preschool and the social worker who is involved has informed me that my daughter is smarter and brighter than average kids. She walked at 7 months, crawled at four months, started running at 10 months old. There is obviously something up with her :)
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@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
• United States
2 Mar 07
My son Skylar is in the same boat..Sky was doingthe same things the same time..and he went to headstart last year when he was 3..he was reading,writng,knew ABC;s,counted to 60..this year he can count to 100..shapes up to trapaziods,hexagons..and knew his money..they wanted to skip him this year ot kindergarten..but i said not till hes older..i want him to be with the same age..rightnow and enjoy being a child,,and have fun..i teach him as well at home.all i can say is that lok online for things to work with her..iknow he loves learning on the net..also u can find fun learning crafts to do with her..there are great workbooks u can find as well..and u cant make it boring ir they will lose interested..try checking out www.enchantedlearning.com and find educated fun movies for her to learn from from the library,,lots of luck!
@anij34 (317)
• United States
2 Mar 07
My 4 yr old daughter is at a 2nd grade level right now. I give her tons of "homework books", puzzles, games etc. She can't stand video games, they don't challenge her enough. She does like her Leap Pad, she does that for quite awhile. My daughter will play with her puzzles for an hour or more, over and over again until its memorized. Then she never touches them again, because she conquered them. We have to buy workbooks almost every other week because she goes through them so quickly. The 2nd grade level reading, writing, math and science books. She usually does one book a day, plus she goes to preschool 5 days a week. In a month she will be tested for kindergarten, we are hoping to test her out of Kindergarten because 1st or 2nd grade will be more challenging. I am not worried about her ability to make friends, she is very sociable and mature.
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