Defintion of "TRUE LOVE"??? Is there such a thing?

Philippines
March 1, 2007 9:16pm CST
I love to read a lot since I started reading... But up until now I'm still confuse & wondering how & when will I actually know if it's already True Love that I'm experiencing or had experience4d for as far as I'm concern, I've never really felt that from my partners.... hope anyone out there can help me realize that there is such a thing existing out there..... thanks!
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@djaboo32 (45)
• United States
2 Mar 07
There is definitely soomething called "TRUE LOVE adn it iexists in the moment that you and that other person are mutually expressing this emotion to one another. Be it through physical, mental, emotional, or financial acts. It exists in a space in time for those two individuals.The time when nothing else matters in the world except what you and that person are to another, or are doing with one another. All hope is not gone. LOVE is there, you just have to know when to recognize it.
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• Philippines
2 Mar 07
Thank you for sharing your insights, Guess I just need that assurance that people does possess that "TRUE LOVE" does exist. God Bless!
@cetamol (15)
2 Mar 07
I personally think every single persons definition of " True Love" is different, like for instance one person might truly with all there heart love another, and give all they have to that person, but it wont be enough for the other person if there definition of true love id different, they might for instance give gifts, hugs, ect and NEED to express there true love and expect to have that back to show they are truly loved, but the other person gives all they can, but its still there defination of true love. As to when you will know if its "True Love" i have wondered this myself, more so i wonder how i can define Love in general and i dont think you can, till you lose it... and then you just feel it
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• United States
3 Mar 07
Its funny that you ask that question because i used to wonder the same thing, used to wonder when it would happen and if it would happen. but now i know that true love really does exist, because ive found it. And a lot sooner than i thought i would have(thank god for that)You never know when its going to happen, its going to sneak up on you but its going to happen. i belive that everybody will experience true love once in their life even if only for a little while and when it happens you'll know because it will be unlike anything you've ever felt before. You will be so happy and you will hope that it will never leave. it took me a while to realise i was in love, i was surprised. i didnt think it would be him and i didnt think it would be now, but it happened :)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
CONGRATS GIRL!!! You've succeeded to find the most wonderful feeling that a human could possibly acquire with our of lifetime. I am so happy for you & thanks for sharing it to me, Guess I just have to be patient for it to find me.... ^_^ God Bless!
@ReshVal (24)
• India
2 Mar 07
There is 'true love'. But don't confuse it with it only being towards a partner or lover. But since I know in what regard you are asking I'll tell you what my version is. I think that true love is more than just the experience lust, affection, talk, silence and what other definitions of every human emotions is when it comes to love. I loved someone since 94 and reached a point when I thought it was just puppy love. But till today I still love that person will continue doing so. Though I have no contact whatsoever with this person, there is this strong feeling inside me which refuses to go away. This is true love on my part. No matter what would and could happen if that person would just show a sign I know I'll go running back! And if its true love on their part, they would do the same! In simple words, a true love will always return! It will never die away even if that person hurts you the most. ( leaving aside abuse ) Good luck.
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Oh thank you very much for sharing that to me.... How I wish someone would feel that same way towards me...someday.. too! Hope you find her SOON.... Good Luck to you too!
@cybergwen (158)
• United States
3 Mar 07
The definition has changed for me over the years...I guess that it was infatuation or just plain lust when I was younger, but now it is something more. For me, and I think I have found it, it is something that grows with every day that goes by. It is making sacrifices to make that person happy, not to keep them around, but to see their smile because it brightens your day. It is like you are the only two people in the world and nothing can bring you down. It is thinking of a healthy "we" instead of me. It is this gut feeling that you are meant to be with this person and that everything will work out and you will work on it together. Now...if you are the only one of the two that feels this way....that is called uhhhh gee stalking, unhealthy, etc. You have to remember that it takes both of you feeling this way:)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Hey thanks I will keep that in mind! ^_^ Thank you for the reply, it somehow make me more hope that TRUE LOVE is just around the corner & finally make me really believe it does exist! Congrats for your one of those lucky persons who already have what we still seek for... God Bless!
@mrddln (457)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
There is true love if there is what we call openness to the other or permeability. Only with this openness you could really share how deeply inloved you and your partner to each other.