What do you do when someone at MyLot pisses you off?

@info2go (241)
Philippines
March 2, 2007 12:50pm CST
It can't be avoided, any forum you visit, any community you join, any room you're in, there's always that someone that is sure to get into your nerves one way or the other.. Debating politely is okay, but when someone gets too far as to swear at you and do things to ruin you, you always think of getting back at him/her.. Now, i know there are ways of doing that, the good way, the evil way, the stupid way, the smart way, etc.. What i want to know is what you guys do when someone pushes the right buttons? or do you just try to absorb it?, laugh it off?, ignore it? or do you usually prefer to plot an elaborately complicated evil scheme to destroy him and make him pay for his obnoxious attitude? ?
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@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
2 Mar 07
i'll just ignore him/her.If it is in real life i would punch him. And if it's a girl(beatiful or ugly) i'll insult her and make her cry to cool down my anger.
@info2go (241)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
lol, don't you think that's a little to mean to do in the flesh, hehe... to think about it, it's really tempting to punch a very obnoxious dood(guy) when he's really out there to humiliate you in front of a large crowd...
• United States
2 Mar 07
if I get mad enough to where I think I may not be able to control my attitude or opinion (which hasn't happened yet)I think that I just wouldn't respond and just try to forget about it.
@info2go (241)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
you seem to have a very good poise, i think that's another "good way" to respond to annoyances other people throw at us. an attitude like that keeps us from saying things we'd regret later.. a lawyer once said: "Speak in anger, and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret..." :)
@mnflower (1299)
• United States
2 Mar 07
Everywhere in life your going to find someone that doesn't agree with you fully and are more than happy to give there opinions, it is up to you on how you react to these opinions that get you so upset...You have the power within yourself not to let these people piss you off as you say...for ya know everyone is entitled to there opinions and no two people will ever completely agree on the same things...this is reality.
@info2go (241)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
thanks for your reply :), very good explanation... anyway, i believe that everyone has their own opinions and the right to express it through any means; a decent debate is a nice way to do it, but when people comes to being such a jerk and demonstrating rudeness that are mostly wanting to annoy people more rather than sincerely conveying their thoughts, i prefer to take the challenge to engage them in a battle of wits... when i feel that he's wrong then i'll be standing by my principle, but when i see something that i didn't see before then that'd be the time when i'd be more willing to accept his ideas and opinions.. but then again, as you said, no two people will ever totally agree on something, proof that a man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still... tnx mnflower... (",)