haw can u make good judgement of a person
@noeltotherescue (261)
India
March 4, 2007 6:29am CST
i always suck at judging people... i alwasy think that a person is so nice and gentle and warm and when i get to knwo him/her better,it turns out that i was totally wrong.. i can tolerate a little nonsense is people but the people i think were good actually were monsters!!
how can one ever know,who is the good one and who is the bad one?
the best part is this-the people i thought were monsters in the beginning were the people with the kind heart and gentle.. it doesnt always happen like this, but i am really confused... how do we judge people??
my grandmom used to say "no matter whether u like a person or not, just notice how he/she behaves with a waiter at a restaurant.... u will know their rela behaviour by the way the interact with the waiter"its funny, but sometimes her advice had helped.
what do the mylotters think?
4 responses
@suren2k6cse (2621)
• India
16 Mar 07
while talking and behavoiur and had a talk and try to know his character from others
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@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
4 Mar 07
The problem why you judge people wrong is that you cant see if a person is faking.i knew someone who treat me so nice,but at the same time i see thats she acting,she's not nice she's just acting to get my attention and after a while she shows her bad side.
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@cattleya18 (9)
• Philippines
4 Mar 07
I think that you are easily beguiled by people you meet. You easily trust them the first time you know get acquianted. I suggest that you better know them thoroughly before you ever make any conclusions. You have to be observant about how he interact and deal with the people around you and how he treats you. Be a bit skeptical about first time acquiantances and draw our conclusions as you know them better for a certain time. Just be cautious with too nice, too gentle and warm people because they might be acting this way just to get favors from you.
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@JBrulez (663)
• Philippines
23 Jul 07
Nowadays, you'll never know who are real friends and foes.. Foes hurt you by disguising thaier real personality and acts as if they are your friends.. Until such time when they have already got what they want you would then realize they are just fake friends.. There are people who opportunistics so be careful.. I judge others based on how we get along for a period of time.. I'm the kind of person who loves to read people's minds so i would know if one person is actually an enemy or a friend..
