Not saying goodbye...
By filchi
@filchi (291)
Netherlands
March 4, 2007 8:39am CST
Does it happen to you that your partner will just leave the house and not saying anything? Isn`t that an annoying behaviour? Or what do you feel when he/she doesnt say anything when he/she left at home without a word?
4 responses
@classy56 (2880)
• United States
4 Mar 07
my husband has never done this to me.but if he did i would be pissed off.an i would be ansking alot of question as to why he didnt tell me he was leaveing.i feel if they did this then they must be hideing something.or going somewere an dont want me to know about.
@ladymoonstone143 (1507)
• United States
5 Mar 07
My husband had never done this to me. He leaves so early for work so not be to be caught up in traffic but I always feel his kiss and whisper he will call me on lunch break and say I love you . I just mumble a reply because am still sleepy but usually I found too that he left a note on top of my laptop.
If ever he does this to me, probably am asleep or I haven't heard him. But if does this on purpose...I definitely would get mad. Even if so mad and I want to take a walk (pregnancy hormonal problems) I can even say, I be right back Honey.
You have to find out what is wrong and try to open up your communication. There is something lost along the way and you have to mend it before it gets bigger.
@filchi (291)
• Netherlands
5 Mar 07
I got those nice treatments before too, those early years of marriage, kssing before he leavees to work even if i am sleeping, waking up early just o have breakfast together,but marriage gone wrong because of the communication. We cant simply talk, or if i usually does the initiation for talking even if its not my fault, he wont say anythng...he was like this actually eversince when we met, but as marriage goes longer, living together for so long,having kids, you cant just be quite and not talk about the problem or blame it on me...problems are pending, if it is being talk it is always my fault...i feel like i just dont want to say a word anymore.What i felt was i know normal to feel bad and i have the right to get mad...
@globetrotter_27 (558)
• India
4 Mar 07
oh i c it is really heart breaking ,, for all the day long till get back or call of realisation wth some excuses LOL
@sjohnson628 (3197)
• United States
4 Mar 07
I have experienced this with my BF. I hate it I really do! Jeez! I use to feel bad about it but now I guess I am use to it. Sometimes he's in another world I think! LOL! Men are from mars woman are from venus....LOL!
