How old do you target your marriage??
By vivivirtue
@vivivirtue (20)
Indonesia
March 5, 2007 7:47am CST
Everybody should has a dream to go into a marriage..Well,here i just wonder if they had a target, how old they want to go married.. Rumors telling us if woman especially doesnt get married when she's near over 30, she'll get pity mark.
Me myself Ummm..maybe i put it on 29-30 years old.
HOW 'BOUT YOU???
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11 responses
@vebela (310)
• United States
23 Mar 07
I personally always wanted to get married at 27 or 28. I thought that at that age, I would be mature enough to handle a family and a career, and I would be financially secure enough to support myself. Good logic, right?
But, I ended up getting married at 22. When I got there, it was just the right time for me to get married. And, I found the right person to get married to.
It's good to dream, but you can't always plan when every event in your life will happen. That's what I figured out. If you try to plan out an ideal time for everything, then too much life will pass you by...and you might end up missing the most important opportunities/events of your life.
@lpipe0240 (1161)
• United States
9 Mar 07
I got married when I was 24 and my wife was 19. I know a little young...
@mic_tcs (264)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 07
For me, i plan to get married when I am 27-28 years old. I don't want to wait for too long, as I want to have grandson around the age of 50. hehe, this is my dream as I don't want to wait till I am too old to see my grandson. But everything also have to depend on the savings, me and my gf family and all other matters.
@Moonprysm (12)
• United States
11 Mar 07
I wanted to be married straight out of high school. Always have. And I was. :) I graduated in June, turned 18 in August and got married in November. It's been almost 4 years now and we have a beautiful baby boy together who will be one next month. I couldn't be happier.
@chiquitita (1226)
• Indonesia
8 Mar 07
A.S.A.P lol. Well actually our target is by the end of this year. But there are things that havent been settled and our savings is still not enough to fund a wedding party, so I think it has to be postponed. We still have a new target though, hopefully next year, but still dont know the exact time lol :p Cheers!
@klystron635 (1519)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
Definitely I want to get married to my current boyfriend. I really think he's the one. I am planing to get married when I am 25 or 26. But still it is just a plan who knows what will happen in the future.
@tiaramas (207)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 07
hmmm maybe 29.
We all bring some baggage with us into our marriages. We all carry some pain within us that needs healing. Each of us is imperfect and in need of character refinement. A crucial task of marriage is to allow yourself to discover your weaknesses and take responsibility for working on and correcting them
@smithy86 (137)
•
5 Mar 07
I am 20years old and if my girlfriend asked me to get married tomorrow i would say yes instantly. However i only want to get married once so it would take me at least two years to plan the wedding. I think i would like to hope that i was married and have a mortgage by the age of 28, so that you can still be in with the fashion without some snooty bitter woman calling you a mutton dressed as a lamb
@franxexces (1096)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
i want to get married by the age of 27. I think by that time I already have enough money and has a stable job.. But it really depends because what if I still don't have the man I'm willing to spend my life with during that age.. hehehe