What men want

All men are different. So I certainly cannot answer that for all men. But I would suggest you start with the following conversation to your man. Dear, Can you be totally honest with me if I promise my feelings won't be hurt and I won't get mad or think any less of you no matter how you answer so help me god! He will most likely be suspicious of your motives so you have to be totally sincere in this. He will most likely be a bit suspicious and skeptical but if he trusts you and are a woman of your word, you should then be able to ask him anything and he will tell you the truth. If you ever break your promise to hm though and use any of the frankand embarrassing information against him he wil most likely lose all respect and trust in you. So do so at your own risk.