common problem after marriage

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I think our problem was making the adjustment to living together. We had to make the adaptation from dating to actually living together. Just getting used to each other's routines...like morning routines before work, etc.

I think it depend on the couples because if there are 100 couple, there are 100 problems. But I think finances are popular problems. for my husband and I, we really dont have problems. Financially, yes we would love to have more extra money but we get to pay the bills and take care of things for the house so Im fine with his income. Other than that, we dont have any problems.

they find somebody else ?

Finances are definitely #1, especially if one person likes to save and the other likes to spend. When children come, they create strain because they demand so much attention, cause lack of sleep, and cause the couple to change to a different lifestyle. Step-children and exes can cause more strain.

For us, some problems have been.. money, lack of sleep from the baby lol, and the stress of moving into a new place. I think the biggest problem is actually learning how to live with eachother. I think it's all worth it though :)

It depends on the couple, but finances are often a source of friction.

It depends on the couple, but finances are often a source of friction.