ahhh wish people would leave me alone!
By xXmeganxX
@xXmeganxX (4420)
March 6, 2007 7:11pm CST
hey peeps, remember when i put a discussion up saying about this connexions worker was trying to get me to go to college, well today i seen her and i told her about me and my partner is going to be splitting up..
well.. i should of kept my mouth closed but the reason i told her was because she would of found out anyway in the end!
she said to me just because your on anti depressants, don't be making steep changes in your life, you need all the help you can get and he does help you, (hah yes ok) and also i told her about with him not working ive never got no money so she told me to go to college, hmm yeah okay me go to college and please him while he's lying in bed all day and me pay more money for him to sit and smoke how much he likes! ahh yeah whatever! i told her NO tho why should i!
he doesn't even deserve me never mind me going to college and keeping him with more money! plus she knows everything what goes on in our relationship and she's telling me im mad for ending it because she thinks im taking big chances in my life!
well how cheeky, i was fuming, that's what i mean she can't keep her nose out, why why why!!!!!!!!!!!
sorry juts had to get that out, now i can relax! =)
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13 responses
@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
7 Mar 07
i agree to gaby. you need support now and not something like that. tell her to clean her own house before of yours lol
i wonder where she learnt that. a report would be helpfull, because that worker needs to know what she does. is she young or is she older and should have more experience? hmmm better i stop or i write a book here lol
hugs to megan and im glad you feel better now
@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
hey marlyse, i think she's about hmm 25 or 26 so a bit older than me, she should know better as a mater of fact, she knows that he HITS me and everything else and she's telling me all this! i won't take her advice that's for sure! im taking all your advice because i know you's are right 100%! woohooo 13 days left to go before my meeting hehe i can't wait! im going to have a word with her manager tomorrow anyway and see what i can do to get her out of my business! thanks alot for responding! =) +
ps - you and gabby always make me smile yay! =)
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
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8 Mar 07
hey marlyse!! yes well she should be gone if i have a word with her manager or get her not to get in contact with me again! woohoooo 12 days left now haha! i love counting the days i just can't wait to see what happens! hehe! thanks alot for counting the days with me, im proud! =) +++
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
7 Mar 07
Ok Meg you need to report her and you need to demand to be assigned under someone else as she is out of order telling you to stay with someone that is violent and dangerous, also telling yo to go to College whiole he is doing nothing.Please, love, get on the Phone and do it. I don't know what a Connexions Worker is but either way she is well out of order and very rude. Get rid of her
@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
well im going out tomorrow gabs so im going to get in touch with her manager and see what i can do about it, she really makes me maddddddd! im okay today tho ive got over it with all these nice comments too! i hope i cna get rid of her! thanks alot for responding gabs, you always make me smile! =) +
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
me too gabs that will be another great thing to get her off my back phew! =)
@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
exactly shambuca that's what im going to do tomorrow, thanks alot for your great response! =) +
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
Breathe! Breathe! Breathe meg. . . Inhale, exhale! haha! ... I don't like to make any comments anymore my friend. Just sit down and relax. . . Let it out! Release all the negative vibrations in your body. We're here to listen. . (",)
.. Just go go go, fight fight fight meg! lol (",)
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
LOL anjoks, hope im not giving you a hard time with all my discussions but i HAD to get this rant out of my system, it went on for about half an hour phew! im glad im happier today tho and ive seen your response, you always cheer me up and make me laugh! hehe! =) +
@xXmeganxX (4420)
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8 Mar 07
LOL, the online doctor thing just popped into my head, haha! that's okay with my laptop im not a techie person either i don't have a clue but people have advised me so im taking there word for it, lol! thanks alot for listening to me rant on sometimes! =) +
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
I don't think that at all meg! ... that's what friends are for. . haha! i had a good laugh when you mentioned something regarding "online doctors" to other discussions u just had. . hehe! mwah meg. . goodluck to your new laptop. Cool! .. can't answer u regarding that matter, i'm not a techie person ya know. mwah! tc. (",)
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@lols189 (4742)
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7 Mar 07
good one. tell her to zip her mouth because the only thing that comes out of it is c**p. she knows nothing. i will speak tommorow and tell her straight. she is too nosey for her own good. she wants to sort her own life out before she starts intefering in anyone elses. she really burns my head out.
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
thanks for pointing that out lols, well you know too well what she's like! i hope you rang her, ring me in a bit and let me know plz ok! cu later! =) +
@retardedrugrat (4791)
• Canada
7 Mar 07
Ignore her, and if she starts telling you how to run your life again, tell her to mind her own damn business!
She has no right to tell you that you don't need to be making changes in your life.
Do what feels right for YOU and you alone. Only you have the power to run your life, nobody else.
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
yes rugrat exactly your 100% right i RUN my LIFE not her but she likes to think she CAN but that's not going to happen! thanks alot for your great response! =) + also thanks to the oerson who agreed with you! + =)
@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
the point im trying to make is that why do people always have to interfere, if you read my relationship problems thats the first one then you will understand! =)
@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
yes well everyones entitled to there own opinion, i accept that but she's not trying to help me honestly she's too much nosey for her won good and alot of people don't like her because of this and she knows this! only i can decide what's best for my life that's right! thanks for responding! =) +
@ScrappinHappyMom (914)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day and you can just ignore and her wealth of know how. Sometimes I wish people would just take a minute to listen instead of trying to fix everything.
By the way I love that expression cheeky.
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
hey mom well said there! you made me feel alot better! also we use the word 'cheeky' alot up here in my city, hehe! it's one of my favourite words! thanks alot for responding! =) +
@urbangirl (1456)
• Australia
7 Mar 07
Well, considering the way this person talks to you, why bother volunteering information to her? So what if she eventually finds out herself?
By voluntarily giving her information about your life, you are giving her the green light to interfere in it and give you unwanted advice.
@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
hey urbangirl, it's not like that in a way, i HAVE to inform her of any changes and other things what happens in my household according to her and if i don't tell her and she finds out of someone else, i will get into trouble for it, she starts going mad at me! next time if anything else hapens tho im not going to tell her, id rather get the trouble to start with her then tell her to do one, lol! =)
@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
very true urbangirl i agree with you and yes that is what she's like she thinks she has to know every move i make. hmmm im not going to bother her anymore and also im going to have a word with her manager tomorrow and tell him what she does to me! thanks alot for responding back! =) +
@urbangirl (1456)
• Australia
7 Mar 07
What are you talking about? Your personal life really is none of her business, as you say you have to give her the information "according to her" so you know deep down you don't owe her any explanations. Sounds like she has an abnormal control over you. Good luck with it, but if you don't stop the cycle this will continue.
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@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
7 Mar 07
Ignore her and dont take her advice,as soon she noticed you didnt take her advice she wont bother you anymore.
@beaniegdi (1964)
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7 Mar 07
it sounds like she is concerned that you may be making this decision because of the depression and is worried you may be rushing into something because of it. same as she advised you to go to college, it will give you a better future and make you feel better about yourself. I hope you feel better soon and how you run life is your business, I think she is just concerned you may regret such a big change especially if the depression is behind it. take care.
@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
yes true it could be because of that but if you read my discussion on " relationship problems" you will see why im ending this with him, he is literally a vile person in all honesty! she is a bit too nosey also for her own good and the thing is, she doesn't realise i will be 20 this year and it's my life and my future, so whatever i choose i have to live with in the long run! thanks alot for pointing this out tho! + =)
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@BaronBrash (20)
• Australia
7 Mar 07
She obviously has your best interests at heart. You do what you want to do in this life, don't let anyone tell you different. If you feel someone is keeping you back from something you want to do, even if it's just to be doing something else, then tell them and move on.
Happiness is never handed to anyone who didn't do something for it, even if it's to make the decision to be happy.
If venting here has made you a happier person, I'm glad to have responded to it.
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
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7 Mar 07
thanks alot for your response baron well said there friend! thank you! =) +
