relationship
By sugarlen
@sugarlen (138)
Philippines
March 7, 2007 2:21pm CST
does it really need to be honest when you are in a relationship? i have a friend who is still very much in love with her xbf. however, she has managed to keep her feelings thinking always the best for her family. in this situation, don't you think that being honest to her husband is not the best thing to do? anyway, she has not done anything to destroy her marriage. but deep inside her she feels the pain because she has fallen out of love from her husband because of the so many hurts she experienced from him. sad to say, she just keeps the relationship for the sake of her children. what is the best advise you can give her?
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@michelledarcy (5220)
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7 Mar 07
It is very hard when you are keeping a relatinship together for the sake of the kids. Ihave been there and in the end I had to get out, but something drastic happened to force me to do it.
I found it very hard at the time but it was the right thing to do and I have found someone new now that is much better.
@sugarlen (138)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
it was so brave of you. i hope that my friend will also have the courage to do so. i have tried to convince her to get out of the relationship but she feels of being a martyr. she always tells me for the sake of her children she is willing to sacrifice. however, sometimes she really feels bad and hopes that one day she will not wake up anymore.
