Home school vs Public school
By faith90260
@faith90260 (52)
March 10, 2007 11:49pm CST
I just moved to an area where the schools are not all that I would like them to be. I have been thinking about home schooling my kids. Should I put my kids in the public school even thought I don't think the shool is very good or should I go ahead with my plan to home school until the schools get better or I am about to sent them to a better school possible out side the area.
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@ryleesmama (560)
• United States
11 Mar 07
I would home school your children if you are able to especially if the school are not that good. I think that kids can learn more at home without all of the distractions of the other students. Also you can give them a good foundation for when they do go to school.
@wahmbrendamh (576)
• United States
11 Mar 07
I'd agree that children are able to learn a lot more at home, even if you only do school for a few hours a day. My 5yo dd is unschooled for the most part and yet she's doing 2nd grade work.
Brenda Marie
Homeschool 4 Us (My homeschool blog): http://homeschool4us.blogspot.com/
My ebook: "Homeschooling Without The Headaches" http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=812683
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@princesskaos15 (235)
• United States
11 Mar 07
I am homeschooled, and I have to tell you it is a wonderful thing to do. I love it! And I have been to public school before, where the schools were pretty bad.
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@akuler_ler (675)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 07
I think you should sent your kids to public school because in public school there are a lot of teacher that is experience. But, if your kids had a home school, I think they will boring. Sure that I say because I had an experience at home school. So, is better you sent your kids to public school.
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@eden32 (3973)
• United States
13 Jun 07
I have experience with public, private & home schooling, and in my experience home schooling is the least boring.
Boredom is my personal pet peeve emotion. I can't stand to not have something to do, or something to read. When I was in school I found it torturous to sit through 8 hours, when I could finish the assignments in under 2 on average. Let's not even get into how many times I got in trouble for reading ahead!
With home schooling you set your own pace and you obviously set it to match your child's & your family's needs. We take weekly trips to various points of interest in our community. We're active with a home schooling playgroup. We always have 2 or 3 on-going projects. And boredom just isn't something we encounter at all.
@skittles46 (388)
• United States
11 Mar 07
Well, I would say depending on where you live to homeschool. I homeschool my 3 children, although I personally don't want them attending any public school, "good" or not.
Homeschooling takes time and dedication, but it is also very rewarding as you personally direct your children's education. I know you said your plan was to homeschool so you probably already know, but www.hslda.org has some great starter points, and a listing of the laws for each state.
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@sithlord (167)
• India
12 Mar 07
i dont think its a good idea to home school your kids...being a student myself...there's nothing better than school life...you learn so many things over there besides knowledge..you learn how to make friends co-operate etc...in short social skills...so its beder if u send them to a school maybe even a better one further away...
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@eden32 (3973)
• United States
13 Jun 07
Children learn social skills in all settings. One does not need to spend 8 hours a day with children the same age as themself to develop social skills. Home schooled children are usually involved in Scouts, home school play groups, volunteer activities, 4-H, sports groups etc. They are around kids of all ages, and under the supervision of several adults; so they have ample opportunity to meet new people, make new friends & learn correct social interactions.
@shalix (14)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
i suggest that you put and let your child be in a public school, even though the educational standard is not that good.....at least your child be socialize......learn how interact with different kids..........anyway if you have time at home you can review your child and even teach your child advance lesson, lessons offered in a private school.......................
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@wahmbrendamh (576)
• United States
13 Mar 07
OK So we are to let our child be uneducated for the sake of socializing for 5 minutes between classes? In reality that's the only time they do get to socialize. At home they can be out and about socializing in many different ways and places while getting a great education.
Brenda Marie
Homeschool 4 Us (My homeschool blog): http://homeschool4us.blogspot.com/
My ebook: "Homeschooling Without The Headaches" http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=812683
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@AJ1952Chats (2332)
• Anderson, Indiana
2 Mar 08
Socializing is...WHAT?
Learning how to be taunted and bullied because you're overweight, don't wear the latest fashions, are "too short" if you're a boy or "too tall" if you're a girl?
Learning your colors by which color stands for which gang!?!
Learning that, if you get beaten up (even if you don't hit back), you can be suspended or expelled for being "involved" in a fight?
Some "socialization!" You get better socialization in prison!
@gsnarayanan (1704)
• India
12 Mar 07
In any case you have to look after the intrest of your child first. If a better school is in a reachable distance, better to go there.You can think of even shifting your house to another place where sood schools are available.Home schooling is any way required. But ensure that your child does go to some school, then only the child will have the oppertunity to move with children of equal age limits.
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I do not like home school or public school. I think private school is the best.
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@ForbiddenBeauty (209)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Regardless of which you chose, The one major thing to remember is to have your children involved in all sorts of after school programs and activities like sports, and dance. ESPECIALLY if they are homeschooled, this will still allow them to gain the socializing they will need later on in life, and with out it, they wont be able to handle themselves as well around their peers, and may end up being in the shadows the rest of their lives. Having contact with Kids are crucial, however they also need an education that will allow them to grow and develop not hinder them. If the public schools arent to your liking, go with your gut instinct, becaue those are the type of kids your child would have daily interaction with, and be most heavily influenced by. So chose what the mother in you feel is best for your children. :)
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
4 Feb 08
By all means, home school your children. The public schools not like they used to be, there is too much secularism, pray and even talking about God is not allowed. There are good information about home schooling on the internet and resources to help you. You can find a good private school, but that costs money and sometimes people home school because of the cost, so it may be that you may be able to let your children to a private school when you can afford it. The benefits of home schooling and private schooling, I heard, are identical.
@aprilgrl (4460)
• United States
11 Mar 07
I homeschooled my daughter for 6 years and she seemed to learned more than she was in public schools. I homeschool her because the teacher wasn't teaching anything and I felt that she was behind but when we started homschool it was alots of fun and she even got social life with this homschool programs.
@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
11 Mar 07
If you think the schools are that bad you should consider homeschooling. I moved when my children were in elementry school and didn't like the school where we moved. I stared home schooling my children and continued to do so until we moved back home and they decided they wanted to go back. If your realy interested there is a whole network. Do some research on it and you will find a lot of things your children can do with other children. Good luck.
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@eden32 (3973)
• United States
13 Jun 07
If you have the time and patience, home schooling can be a great experience- for the whole family really. I love home schooling. Our schedules are more flexible, our son can spend as much time as he needs on a subject and we can move along to new things whenever we choose.
There are some downsides. I don't get as much time away from him as I did when my older children were in public school. Keeping the house neat & tidy is a bit harder. But for me, those aren't big problems.
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
11 Mar 07
As a home school parent, let me tell you that if you feel that your children should be home schooled, DO IT! Do not let anyone tell you that you can't or that it is too hard or that the kids will miss out on things, etc. I have heard it all, but for three years we have had a fabulous relationship and so many learning experiences that I can't imagine how I used to know what was going on with them when they were in public schools.
I was very nervous about home schooling them but I must say that I believe that I chose what was best for my kids and they are much better off than before.
It is hard work and all, but it is worth every minute of it. Take field trips too. A day to the park can be a great learining experience!
I work outside the home too and we still have plenty of time for school!