Can I share ...Personal Problems at mylot?

Sharing things with people who are objective can be very helpful. They are not involved in the problem so they are free to look at it fro a fresh and unbiased fashion. I have vented on here myself a couple of times and got some excellent advice.

I do tend to agree with you about some of the personal problems posted here on MyLot. I feel some of them are just there to earn money. But there are genuine ones there too, and I'll always try & help if I can. I'm not sure if anyone's problems can be solved easily on MyLot though as the discussion is not normally in depth, but with lots of different people and different experiences you may get all sorts of solutions that you'd not thought of yourself. Sometimes, just hearing that what your going through is normal or that you aren't alone is enough to make you feel better. I've just realised that this is an older discussion, so I hope you sorted your problem out.

the very foundation of mylot is to connect and share and no one would think you bad or attention-seeker if you want to share you intimate problems and fears with us. However, it depends on how comfortable you are with the idea and how well you can take criticism and debates. Since this is a virtual forum, its very easy to disagree with each other and point out faults, so you have to accept all responses with an open mind. You cant ask for frank opinion and then get angry if the response is not to your liking. But I think it’s a good forum to seek opinion as you don’t actually meet people and no one knows you by face. so even if you have something to hide in real life, your secret is safe at mylot.

i think your notion is not totally correct. you can very easily share your problem here. there are so many people here to advise you to solve your problem. I have seen it myself that there are many people who give you valuable advise.

hi there, share ur problems here, forget what people thinks about you. u can share ur friends and relative's problems also. by this u can get the responses of others what they think about this. by reading many responses, u might get solution, u might get some laughs whatever and ofcourse u will find urself relaxed by sharing problems.

keeping ur grief within ur self ll burn u up frm inside...u sud let out ur grief frm time to time..it can b here or to a person u trust or any1....but sharing our thoughts ll lighten our heart...

anyone can share personal problems without revealing the personal identity . it is not wrong to seek suggestions for personal problems . some might do it for getting attention and more responses . it is left to their justification . we need not worry about them who do it for personal gains . and we need not afraid regarding what others feel about us , if we seek help for personal problems . others can think what ever they like ...

there may be a few people who do things for attention or more responses but i think that personal discussions get more responses because people genuinely care for others and would like to try and help. if we know in ourselves that we arent doing things for attention etc, then bugger what everyone else thinks...not everyone thinks that way so dont worry so much...there will always be a few out there that want to put people down but that is because they have their own fears and insecurities and instead of acknowledging them they prefer to lash out at others and make them feel bad... so please if you want some advice from many different walks of life, here is a good place to do it....just dont take negative responses to heart

Thats what we are here for.. If you feel more comfortable, I'll request you as a friend and if you do the same we can send messages to one another!!! ms.meredith

I try to look at those discussions as I would like people to look at mine with some compassion and common sense. We all here at MyLot have many problems in common and sometimes just knowingthat a user is not alonein his or her problem is enought to help that person to deal with it. I try to be charitable and think that all people are only seeking attention and responses. You would tell your best friend about a problem so look at us as best friends. I would not think that you shared a problem just to get some attention or responses.I would rathe think you are reaching out for help or advice nothing more.

This is a great place to share and feel good. So dont hesitate friend!