Life is hard anyone wanna help me?

India
March 11, 2007 11:06am CST
For me life is always something hard.It has never been good for me..Ever.......Wen all my frens went to watch movies,party and havin fun i was always wid my family helpin them out wid the biz n households..Now Wen all my frens r workin like me still they go out and have fun..I feel im old enough n shudnt be freakin out like them..Bt then i Have no idea wat shud i do to keep this loneliness away from me..Its jus hurting me everyday..God this is so bad.........I feel sometimes i jus loose myself in front of this loneliness.....please help me people......i dnt want to be wat im right now.......
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5 responses
@simran1430 (1790)
• India
11 Mar 07
well life is what you make of it , you can find positiveness in the most difficult situations of life also by thinking that it could have been more worse than this . see there is rule if there are good times bad time will be there too and vice versa just like roses with thorns etc .
• India
12 Mar 07
hey thanks alot..simran...
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
I dont know what to say...you seem to be so upset at problem with lots of solution. but may i know your age? You know what? happiness does not depend on going out or being like your friends... Do not based your happiness at the happiness of others. its not because you cant enjoy what they enjoy...you cant be happy anymore. you cant be like them because you are not them. you see in life...some enjoy riding ferry boat while others riding a plane... some enjoy vegetables while others meat. people cant have the same cause of joy... You must find your own happiness. You must be thankful that you have your family around you...your work... Start counting your blessings. i understand how you feel...and there is something you can do about it. Like you can go out once in a while... when youre not busy. You dont have to freak out like them... just do or go to places you enjoy or you're comfortable with... Dont be lonely... here in mylot you can find new friends... chat...etc... Remember, there is always a way to be happy. If you just look around you... you will find a lot of reason. Now help yourself... its not the end of the world... you can stop living like that right now. Dont let those loneliness even drive you more deeper... Enjoy life! With whatever is in your reach...sing, dance, eat, sleep, laugh....enjoys life little blessings. you will be happy you'll see.
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• India
12 Mar 07
i really appreciate ur words...I mean atleast im reading something which exactly describing my heart.I dont want to be like others at the same time i really dont want to be alone.I dont want to find a lovin carin person Coz i feel thts a complete waste of time and partyin is also waste of time...Im good at music n dance bt then its really been like 5-6yrs and now if i suddenly start to sing n dance imagine wat others will think i mean im 25 now and i think at this age every one gets married n settle down..Bt i dnt have tht feelin still.Its nt dat im nt attracted to guys..Bt its jus dat i havent met anyone whom i can trust.......anyways thanks a ton for ur response...i really loved ur words...and watever it explains
@Phlamingho (7824)
• Denmark
11 Mar 07
Well what can I say, if you don't like your life then change it. It's realyl that simple. Hate you job? Then quit get another... HAte your girlfriend, then dump her and find someone you love. Don't think so much, just act. It sounds like it can't get much worse anyway :-)
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• India
12 Mar 07
hey thanks a ton for ur response..atleast ur words made me smile...ha ha ha......:-) positive ratin to all
@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
11 Mar 07
I can tell you that loneliness is the worst companion you can have.Make up your decision a go out,your lonely because you want to,why dont you call your friends and ask them to go out,or is your parents the problem ?They dont let you go out?
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• India
12 Mar 07
my parents r the best parents..They always keep motivating to move out..even wen we had enough biz probs...then also my parents gave me enough support as i was in my teens and they did understood wat i need..
@MarkyB21 (1545)
13 Mar 07
I'm sorry to hear you're feeling like this. It's important to remember that work isn't everything - you need to set some time aside to enjoy yourself. You could do this by going out with your friends or, if the things they do for fun don't appeal to you, try following some interests of your own. Just about any activity you might be interested in will have a group. Just look in a phone book or search on the internet for a group in your area and consider going out and meeting people with similar interests to you. It can be hard to make the first step but there are many opportunitites out there once you make the effort. I hope everything work out for you.
• India
13 Mar 07
hey thanks for ur response mark..i feel good i have so many good frens here who actually care without even knowing who we are and how we look like..It really rained yest..and i felt so good n all my sorrow n tears went away.....ty to all of u...:)
@MarkyB21 (1545)
13 Mar 07
I'm glad to hear that you're feeling better :-D