Women Attracted to Bad Boys ?! Bad boys: Hot ! Nice guys : Ew ?!

@paulskie (246)
Philippines
March 12, 2007 9:08pm CST
Is it true that women waste time with the bad boys until a good one comes along? What's the truth behind this ?
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@natzee (40)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
How do you exactly define a bad boy? Do you mean a "bad-looking boy"? lol. Or is he a bad-assed guy (the Harley Davidson punk), a jerk/bully or the type of guy whom girls' mom warned them about?. lol. How about the nice guys? Do we define them as the nerdy type? The "clean" type of guy? Or are they the gentleman type? Or are they those whom most moms adore? lol. Well, i don't think women waste their time with the bad boys. I know a friend who's with someone whom society would classify as a "bad boy", maybe because of how he projects himself. However, this guy is a "bad boy" on the outside but a nice guy deep inside.
@paulskie (246)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
"Bad boy" on the outside, nice guy deep inside.. Nice! About the "bad boy" and "nice guy" terms.. I'd say we will just to refer to those terms in "general". My definition of "bad boy" and "nice guy" may not be the same to what others may have in mind. It would be exciting to read and learn other peoples view regarding the discussion. Specifying those terms would spoil the fun. Just my humble opinion. Thanks for your input.
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• Philippines
13 Mar 07
it really depends on the kind of girl that you are talking about but anyways here's what i think, pretty girls who are just pretty and got nothing on their heads they tend to choose bad guys. the stereotyped blond girls and pretty girls youve seen around the streets or wherever. it as if it would add up to the beauty that they have in themselves and their reputation will soar high because of dating or being the girl of a bad boy and tehy have this mentality that these guys are hot. hot on the oven that these guys will either abuse them verbally or mentally. The next one is the nice girls, whom they think that its their advocate to change a bad guy to a nice guy. it is as if that there's this achievement that tehy could get in doing so, in which case when they see the bad guy changing to a nice gut to get their heart then that is so appealing to them and as if it is a credit taht the bad guy in town have changed because of her. The third one, the intelligent girls or shall i say the honor students who have a face and a body, that bad guys tend to play around with them and since they dont have any idea and not good at love since they didnt master the art of it since all they have mastered ar the apges of a book they can be lured and bingo they are together with the bad guy. The fourth one is the virgin girls and whose who dont have any bf ever since birth lol. who are in their 20's or 30's, it is as if that because of desperation they just grabbed the chance and have the bad guy wrapped around in her waist. Lastly, this is odd, but this is for real when LOVE really strucked a normal girl, any girl then thats indeed love and we cant questioned that., love know no boundaries or limitations. We could be oh so judgmental for we say taht how come a bad guy end up with a nice girl. only the girl knows why and what are her motives are. im not against this to those girls who are hurt or something but ive answered in here, its the way ive observed and im entitled to my opinion aint i? i hope i did answer your discussion.. ciao
@paulskie (246)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
lol. Very interesting. Thanks for the input. We appreciate it very much.
• United States
13 Mar 07
I like nice guys. I may also like bad boys too. It would depend on exactly how it is that they are bad. Sometimes society defines something that way which is not necessarily bad. It all depends on what it is. If it's not being nice, then no, I don't like that at all.
@paulskie (246)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Yes I agree.. Society standards/general norms is not always pleasant. :)
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@bjone6 (348)
• United States
13 Mar 07
It's funny, this is the third time I've answered this same question. Here is my opinion. When girls are young, they want the newest guy out there. The bad guys are instable, spontaneous, and are temporary. This lasts until a girl has had her heart broken enough. A good guy represents stability and dependability. Long relationships take work and hard work is what good guys represent.
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@paulskie (246)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Third time answering here in myLot ? Or in other forums? Very nice response. Thanks for the input and wisdom. :)
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@ironstruck (2298)
• Canada
13 Mar 07
I don't know what is going on with that, but so often I see amazing women with guys that look and act like losers.\ It must be that the women think it is exciting or something. It is kind of like some women spend all their time writing to guys in prison when there is some nice guy at work who adores them and just gets ignored. Go figure...
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@paulskie (246)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Thanks for the input! I'm amused by the "writing to guys in prison" thing. lol.
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@mssawyer (72)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
not necessarily, i used to get attracted to bad boys but CHOSE not to get attracted to them. they're a heartbreak waiting to happen. I like guys who everybody thinks is a bad boy but is actually a loyal sweetheart, like my boyfriend. He treats me like a princess and I feel that i'm the luckiest woman alive! ps i love aang the avatar too! when's the next season going to start? i can't wait!
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@paulskie (246)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
About Aang (Avatar, The Last AirBender). Off topic. But I would really want to answer that! Hehehe! 3rd season I think would start this month. I'm not sure. Here's a useful link. www.theavatarportal.com/episodes I've seen all the episodes and eager to watch the 3rd season too!
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
13 Mar 07
i don't really like the bad boys. To me they are way too into themselves I usually go after the nerdy guys. The ones who will treat me like a queen. Then I go and mess it up by getting all jealous over some stupid thing. I gotta stop doing that!! Anyways yeah , No bad boys for me.
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@paulskie (246)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Like a queen huh ?! :) Way to go!
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
It's not true in my case. However, some say "If you wanna be a good girl, get yourself a bad boy."
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• United States
13 Mar 07
There is no proven fact about women besides that there is none...women are so mysterious and unpredictable that you can't understand what their likes or dislikes are.
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@paulskie (246)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Hmmmm.. Good point.. :)