Cannot stand your partner...

i think for me,,you really need to stand by hisside. through thickness and thin.. that's marriage! it has lots of trials.. but if gets worst already.. i think u better go back to ur mom's home..

i think everyone feels like that sometimes. you have to do something to break the cycle of thinking. sometimes just watching my husband eat makes me want to reach across the table and poke him with my fork! they are an irritating breed. they cant help it. but, like most things, theyre all like that unless theyre gay. find some things to do just for yourself, and youll find your focus will shift off of what he does that irritating. i would stay, just because I have been where you are and left...only to find a new superhubby...who ended up acting just like my ex.

I think it depends on the reason for feeling that way. Sometimes people just get bored with each other and that tends to make those little irritations seem bigger than they are. If that's all it's really about, I'd say to put some work into the marriage, maybe get counseling and try to make things better. But sometimes you can get to where you can't stand a person because they've scarred you. If there's a deep resentment, it can begin to show up in irritation about other things. Counseling still might help if it's something like that but if it's a deep enough scar, it might be better just to get out.