have you ever BEGGED?
By aquaspices
@aquaspices (164)
Philippines
March 13, 2007 1:13am CST
your boyfriend did not even took time to drop by for a while, call, nor message you. you started an argument with him, and cursed him like 'hell'.
but when the dose of fury dies down, here you are on your sane self. but the matter is, he refuse to communicate with you anymore.
consumed with guilt over the harsh things you have said and caring about him now, you tried to call him. but seems its only the friendly automated machine aswering "subscriber cannot be reached..", you hope that he would get in touch in 2 -3 days...but nothing!..you start to get worried...you message his best friend. the friend he usually confides his problems with...but the friend says, he did not even know where he is now, and haven't comminicated with him as well lately..
days went by, but nothing from him. you emailed. but no response.
...im talking about me here. i was really worried about him, and cant even think straight most of the time. i just couldnt bare it anymore. if i hadnt somehow begged with her sister to help me out, i could have lived my days in wreck consumed with all the worries.
i get mad. i say blunt things. but when it dies down, the real and true feelings prevails. i care for him, no matter what. im a high strung person. i let my pride over rule me. but at this instance, i learned to conquer it.
how about you, have you in some sense begged, and what lessons have you learned out of it?
6 responses
@sad_angel (49)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
it was actually not begging but being myself. i understand what you are going thru but if you tried everything already no reason for you to live in guilt.. i'm sure enough that you were able to say harsh things probably because he did something bad,ayt? i mean there's no point for us girls to say bad words to our guys without any reason at all.. well, just give him time. i tried begging but still it didnt' work but at least i know that i did everything to save the relationship and tell him how i feel.. now if he's not ready yet or at all then just let him be.. just tell him or email him everything you want to say.. in the end he will realize there's a reason that you two should talk.. leave some pride for urself.. okhay
@rohany1982 (22)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
oh YES i have, infront of him and his new gf which turns out to be his wife now. I begged and was on my knees. i was sick like hell, not enough sleep and i got very ill. even to the point (almost) mentally ill that i cut my wrist open.
sounds crazy yeah, but i begged and he did not give me a chance.
it helped me a lot though because i now realized to keep myself in control because in the end you will realized how big stupid you can be.
now? even if we brushed our shoulders along the way to the locker or hit each other near the water counter during breaks we never talked nor say hi, as if we did not share good moments together, as if he did not almost have a baby with me years ago when i had my miscarriage of 3 months. its awful really.
but i think that's life. and yes it was my fault....but still he did not give me a chance. so its not my lost!
@aquaspices (164)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
roh,
is he frm expedia too? do i know him?
chicka jud au ko...hehhe :-)
@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
I had experienced like that similar with your experienced..It is because of pride that we have women and the pride that men had also.. The reason that i learned from it, is being humble..I mean if no one from the two you will be humble the relationship wil not work..If you love him be humble but let himknow also his wrongs.
@joyce959 (1559)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Nope... I had never done that, begging somebody for his attention, love or care. I would prefer that we talk, but would not beg him to come back if he doesnt want me anymore.
@prajesh87 (46)
• India
13 Mar 07
forget it . i live with pride , we all do,neither u nor i should beg for anything.
@akhaniemar (122)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
No. I'd rather not beg. Because I believe that if he really wants to give me his love and attention, he will do the effort to make me feel them. Besides,I think I don't need to beg for something I deserve to have....:)
