You are hurt and

Relationships aren't always happy moments, vikasintl... I should say, stay strong and hold on to your love and relationship tight as you go through this tough moments in your relationship... this happens quite a couple of times, it's either the girl being hurt, or yourself being in the dark side.... I guess the best way you could do is to talk things over with your partner... but give yourselves a lil time before setting down and fixing things, so at least by then you have already given yourselves an ample time to get back to your senses... talking is the best way to solve problems..let your feelings be known to your partner in a subtle way, tell her how you feel about things happening in your relationship and give her the possible consequences your relationship might be experiencing if you don't fix your problems... you actually need to meet half-way to make things work out... remember, a relationship is always a two-way process...so each of you should spend time to listen to each other and let your feelings and thoughts be heard. Godbless!

i think just figure out who is hurting most right then, let that person cry or scream. Then together. Then hold each other. Then let the other person cry and scream. maybe do it like that

I don't talk to them =] making them feel guilty and making them realize what is wrong. always works for me :P

I do not understand what you mean by hurt, are we talking about feelings or is it actual beating? The best way to stop this is to not allow it to happen, You can tell them you do not accept this sort of treatment and walk away.What ever makes you believe that you have to stand there and take abuse. I am sorry I do not understand this sort of thinking, Are you so in fear that he will leave? Would that bee so bad, from the sounds of it he is not a Nice person. If you can not tell him in a calm voice that he can not abuse you any more and he does. it is because you are there to let him

I'll just stay calm,and pretend i'm not hurt and hurt her back with my words and she's the one who's gonna cry

Other than crying and shouting there are many best ways to make your partner understand that he or she is hurting .For instance saying in a noninsulting way that I was hurt bause of this not you hurt me.There are many different occasions sometimes keep cool sometimes shout back nd sometimes do not respond.There should be variety in anger too.Your partner will be clue less