When you are angry at some one do you take it out on everyone one?

I know plenty of people that take their anger out at everyone around them but I'd like to think that most of the time I can keep my anger under control. Other people around me may know something is not right but I won't take out my anger on other people.

I have at times but I try not to do that. I just go off by myself til I get over it and then I will talk about the problem.

I am very easy going and it is so hard to make me angry. It has to be something reallyyyyyyyyy...big to make me angry. I use NLP for difficult situations.

When I am really angry it shows on my face and usually people (friends, coworkers etc.) stayed away from me. Anyone who didn't know me real well and tried talk to me also left me alone after the first snarl. LOL

It depends on what I am angry with and what it is in regards to. Most of the time I try not to be mad at the world and my family, but when it feels like the whole world is against you, it is hard to remember they are not. I have learned that the world really does not care one way or another about you and your life, so why let it bother you? Do they care if you got mad or sad becuase they said something? Probrobly not if they even know they did it in the first place. Taking this form of action is easier said than done. :) Good topic

Honestly, i often do that. especially when im all stressed out, even the smallest of things irks me, and i tend to blame it on people around me. i know this is bad, i do too need help on this--anger management.

I honestly try to have some time to calm down and relax when I'm extremely angry or stressed out so that I don't take it out on everyone around me... but I don't always succeed. Sometimes I do tend to get a little snappy with those around me when I get angry, but when I find myself acting like that, I will try and seclude myself for a while and regroup (get myself together).

I do my best not to do that. I tend to be quiet when I get angry. My family knows when I am real quiet to just leave me alone. If I do explode, the person knows they had it coming to them. Look out when I get on the war path.

I never take out my moods out on anyone. I stay focusted to the one that I am angry at only.

I often walk away and give myself sometime to think things over. Therefore, when I am confronting the issue, I will be using logic and reason over mere emotions.

When i am angry with someone then i hate talking to that person . I would manage myself to cool down by talking freely with other people. But if the situation is worse then i cant control myself. It would definitly reflect on others . My parent used to say you are really worse at other people when you are not in a good mood. I think i have to control this.

Normally if I am mad at someone at work, I can keep my composure until I get home, then I will take it out on my hubby, at least this is what he tells me. I have to agree. I think it is because I am so-o-o comfortable at home, that when I unwind from the day, I tend to spiral a bit out of control (kind of like the Tasmanian Devil!) :-)

Sometimes when I’m angry with someone I often just keep it to myself. But most people around will really notice that I’m mad because I’m really not talking and you can really see from the expression of my face that I’m really having a bad day. But I think, being quiet and not talking is better for me when I’m mad. Because when I’m mad I have the tendency to say harsh things that I regret saying after wards. And it happened before that I hurt the feeling of someone I love because I said something while I was mad. So I learned my lessons, so now, every time I’m mad I just try to be quiet and let my anger cool down first before I say something again that I might regret in the end.

I'm a person who easily control anger,when i'm very upset usually try to distract myself on other things and in just a few minutes ,my anger dissapears completely

I sometimes do when I am extremely extremely hell lot of angry. It is wrong. Not even good for long-term. The other person doesn't deserve it and it ruins the relationships. Secondly, apoligizing doesn't work here. How many times will you do that? Apoligizing doesn't mend that much as your image has already gone bad. I just keep silent and try to control my anger. Drink water. Or start foot tapping, just diverting your time. If you don't take out your anger in initial 6 seconds, science proves that it just melts down. Try to do positive things instead of taking it out in negative way. You got to visit www.6seconds.org Happy Living :)

when i get angry.. i dont want to talk to anybody until i cool down..when im also angry to someone only to that someone, i get angry not to all people.. when someone approaches me and im not in the mood.. i still answer them, i can still control my emotions

I also tend to express my anger, sometimes I even scold at the person just to release the emotion. And same with you, I end up apologizing for what I did. This usually happens when I'm not in the mood or some things turned the way I didn't expected. Stress in work, thinking of personal problems, and future plans also affect how I handle my anger. When I have time, I want to release the anger by shouting.. really loud shout, which I oftentimes do at the beach.. haha! Or, just grab my pillow and shout there. That was my effective way of letting go of the anger.

In response to your question it would depend of if the person who pizzed me off was near by. =)

no not usually, but it sometimes happens. because everybody knows that it human nature. if anybody is not doing it then he/she is not human. he he he

When I'm angry i usually displace my anger on some one else I know daat it's an psychological mental disorder called "DISPLACEMENT" I must try to take control over it and try to be 'COOL' at dat time