could you?

No. That is not ever going to happen with me. Once my ex and I divorced, I cut all ties. There really is no half way. I believe in matters of the heart that the best course of action if your part ways is to begin a new life. I mean both people. Seeing the other person will always dredge up buried or suppressed feelings and I don't understand why people subject themselves to that..

I think for now it would really be a little difficult on your part to be friends with your ex. To consider, I think because you still are upset of what happend and you still have some hatred feeling for your ex. Dont just push it now to be friends with your ex for i think you might need time and space to recover... for sure time will come that you will be able to accept him again but as a friend. I think especially if you can already find someone who is more deserving of your love than your ex...

i think we good be good friends if both want to be friends.

for one the girl who chose to date him really needs to get her priorities together. if hes 27 and is looking to date someone 10 years younger than him he has some issues of his own now that he needs to work out. i think you could be friends with him, only if you understand that nothing will come out of it again...men like that are dirtbags and should understand that they hurt woman...