sleep together before married?

seeing the world these days, I think it's normal for an unmarried couple to stay and sleep together, as long as their environment don't care. in my country, when the people here knows a couple like this, the people will make the couple out of their environment and will not allow them to come again. so it's still best to get married first.

I think we see it more and more these days. Teens don't seem to understand that getting married is a big deal. I have even heard "it's just a piece of paper." I dont feel that away at all and hope I have shown that to y own kids.

If I understand what you are talking about then I think it's normal. I'm living with my boyfriend in an apartment and sleeping with him. We've been together for five years but we are both in college so we are going to wait to get married. After we already graduated and settled somewhere. It seems a lot wiser.

Well I am a bit old fashioned and when I met me new husban ..even though I had been married before..when we first met after 4 months of long distance dating lol..I got him to take me to the nearest daoist temple..i said to him just take me any where to get a blessing..cos i couldn't find a local mosque lol..and we got blessed..i felt better for doing that..we do want to have a proper wedding one day though..I think it is nice to save yourself for someone special don't you? But i don't agree with only woman being virgin..if the man wants a virgin..he has to be one too lol!!! zhidao? I never woyuld condemn any one that did sleep outside of marriage though either..because the drive for togetherness can be too much..the only thing i don't agree with is sleeping with some one that isn't your own ie someone who is already married..if you get what i mean ..

I think that it is nice that people are trying out living together before they get married, it is a good learning experience for them and will mean a future marriage will have a greater chance of sucess.

its a personal choice. we can't criticize or condemn them for that, it's their life. soon if something wrong will happen, its their mistake, they'll learn from it. that's life, learning and then growing