Why are easy things sometimes hard?
By reaperz
@reaperz (1266)
United States
March 14, 2007 8:08am CST
Have you ever noticed this in life? Somethings the easy things in life becomes hard and the hard things becomes easy? Why is this?
2 responses
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
13 Apr 12
Sometimes everything seems more difficult.
Things that were once simple, suddenly become more difficult. And I mean the things that depend on someone else, prices or bosses, relatives or political-economic situation. I mean things that depend only on me, and still do not work as before ...
Life is change and change often occurs through external things new. But there are changes coming in November, which do not depend on others or something outside of ourselves. And I do not mean those things that we clearly decided to change them, but the things that we see changes in our lives without us so elected, and no others. I have lived such situations, and they still live, because they occur again.
I know I can not blame anyone for them, and recognize that they come from my own need for change.
For example, for a while, no longer able to work equally well on certain projects. I want to work well, and know how to work well, but I miss something. A motivation, joy, a call can. It's like suddenly I lost the joy of that thing ever work, or inspiration for it.
And then I wonder where I'm wrong, what are not good, I lost what I miss. No matter how much money is involved, or as little personal satisfaction. What matters is that I, who was, I entered a phase change.
Try to understand what is happening, and to find my way in the new state. Perhaps some might feel manipulated, or would find them guilty beyond. But I do not think I need to find the culprits. I prefer to find solutions.
I know that there are solutions, and that I should find them for me. Not others.
@swecchi (49)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
Hi, Life actually is complicated. Easy things go but most of the time, harder things comes by. These hard things are just trials that comes through our way. This is like a test that God has given to us to strengthen us and have more faith in Him. As you see, the hard things tend to go easy when you have resolve it already. Usually its the first one being dealt on. But for the easier thing, why tend to not care for it. If you have a harder problem and the easier problem, usually you would take care first on the harder. Why would you take care on the easier first if you know its just easy to be solved? You could do that in a short period of time. But the harder, you tend to put greater effort soon you'll see, the harder will be the easy and the easier will be the hard