Does girls need attension?

thanks everyone

I just joined today. I know that this disscussion is kind of old, but I think I have a little bit of knowledge for you about women - since I'm about twice your age - (Grin! No tellin' now!) When it comes to emotions and logic, men and women think very differently. We use them differently. As a man, you know you're crazy about your girl even though you can't always call or be with her. It may never even cross your mind to find a new girl... But as a woman, she needs to know how you feel about her EVERY DAY! Even if it's only a five minute chat between classes or durring a break of some kind. It's not the time that matters, it's the thought, and she can't read your mind. Little things mean so much, especially to a woman. Now I'm not trying to sterotype any of the sexes here, but I've been around the block a time or two, see? I know this about men... When something goes wrong for you, your first reaction is a logical one - instantly. You map out a plan as to how you are going to fix it. Your first thought is something like: Hmmm? That sucks! Now I have to do something to fix this mess before it gets out of control." You make a plan, you follow that plan, it may be a plan that takes several different ideas to make it all come together for you. No matter if your plan is a complete success or a total failure, your emotions run high AFTER it all comes to pass! A woman is the exact opposite to you, my friend! Her first thought is something like: "OH NO!!!! WHAT AM I GOING TO DO TO FIX THIS?!?!?!? Her emotions RUUUULE her! Yes, there are times when she will shock you and not react that way, but how few and far between they are! She goes through all of her worries and fears FIRST - then logic sets in and she accomplishes what she needs to do or fails misserably. If she fails in her task, she will display yet ANOTHER emotional outburst! We worry about everything! She needs to know how you feel because she can't know when you're not there. On the days when you can't come over, and you already knew it, when you already knew you couldn't call either, here is a secret for you! Send her a card, in the SNAIL MAIL! If you took the time to write even one line in a note card, like: "Always thinking of you!" or "My heart's desire!" or however you truly feel in one line every day, dropped in the mail for the price of a stamp and an envelope, she would probably keep them all! Why? Because the card makes you there with her when there's no possible way for you to be there in the physical or to even call! You have just put yourself right smack in the middle of her life! Hope you find some peace in this. - Annie

Well, she have school, I have College and her mother wont allow her to go out anymore ...

hmmm ... may be .. thanks anyway ...

Sounds good, thanks for help ..