do you consider yourself attractive?

@djmarion (4898)
Philippines
March 14, 2007 8:16pm CST
how do you see yourself when you look at the mirror, do you think you're attractive to people who look at you? is personality really determined by your phisical appearance?
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8 responses
Jemina
@Jemina (5770)
•
15 Mar 07
I depends on my mood. But most of the time I want to look my best so I do my best to look beautiful. Even if others won't consider me beautiful as long as I feel beautiful I don't care about their bigoted opinion LOL! Feeling beautiful will help you appear beautiful in the eyes of the beholder. Upholding a positive and beautiful outlook will be reflected in your countenance.
sineen1981
@sineen1981 (339)
• United States
15 Mar 07
i completely agree with your comment, who cares what other people think on your not so good days. as long as you know you can light up the room on your good days is all that matters! perhaps you dont have to wear makeup because if you did, too many people would be jealous of your looks. and we dont want any negativity - so therefore we try to tone our beauty down a little to just look average.
Makena1968
@Makena1968 (682)
• United States
15 Mar 07
I'm almost 60, and I don't think I'm attractive at all. But that's not what other people say about me. So I try not to believe what my own mind says, and I believe what others say about me. I also try to believe inside myself that I am attractive, and that what's in my heart is what makes me attractive, not the kind of clothes I wear, or the way my hair is. I may not be glamorous, or possess the beauty of youth, but I do believe I am attractive, and that this kind of attractiveness can last a lifetime.
djmarion
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
you have a good attitude and i like your point of view, being attractive should start from one's point of view and not on what people will say.
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sherinek
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
15 Mar 07
I believe I am ok looking woman. To answer your other question, I think personality is not determined by physical appearance. There are a lot of genetically un-blessed people who have very good personality. Personality I think is depend on the way you walk, talk, stand, and deal with day to day things.
raydene
@raydene (9871)
• United States
15 Mar 07
Hello I don't think it matters how good looking you are.I have a friend that had over 80% of her body burned. She makes friends easily even through she has scarring all over her face and body.I look at her and she is one of the most georgous people I've ever known R
djmarion
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
THATS GREAT TO HEAR, im happy to know that the problem on your friend did not become a burden for her to continue living normally cause lot of people who went on to this situation has hard time living normally again.
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stacy624
@stacy624 (2776)
• Canada
15 Mar 07
I feel Looks shouldnt be considered from the outside but from the Inside.
vhinjc
@vhinjc (342)
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
i agree with you, personality is what counts most.
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beverly27
@beverly27 (86)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
yes, i consider myself as an attractive individual and i believe that being attractive is not only skin deep, it should be deep within you.
sineen1981
@sineen1981 (339)
• United States
15 Mar 07
i absolutely enjoy the way i look, i've got full lips and i don't have a problem with the shape of my nose, and i just feel overall GOOD when i look at myself in the mirror in the morning. but the only thing is that i have to keep up with keeping my skin soft and my eyebrows plucked. and as far as personality i have a strange/comedic and spontaneous personality. So why then does my dad think that i need mental help?! i will NEVER know! lol~!
decimus785
@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
15 Mar 07
I'm attractive by many girls,i don't like to say that i am attractive,i prefer to let the girls judge me if i'm attractive. Personality in many cases is determined by physical appearance. If you have a good physical appearance it may give you a higher self-esteem. And with a bad physical appearance it may give you a lower self-esteem.