This guy is my friend and i think i'm fallen for him can you help me?
By lyzzafi
@lyzzafi (10)
Philippines
6 responses
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
20 Mar 07
maybe he feels just like that for you too
just smile
then see if you can get him
@juiceofine (144)
• United States
20 Mar 07
maybe you should just tell him if he is your friend he should be understanding either way it goes but you better say or do something fast cuz the more you fall in love the harder it will be if he doesnt feel the same way.well hopefully will hear from you and you to are talking more serious goodluck!
@michelledarcy (5220)
•
20 Mar 07
I think the best thing to do is to be honest. You need to tell this guy how you feel. If he is a real friend and he doesn't feel the same then you should still be able to carry on being friends together even after this.
@faye_co (38)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
Wow, I had been in your situation. And what i'm doing is i'm trying to forget him although it's very hard. The thing is I can't feel that he loves me too. I already let him feel that and even if I don't, i think he would realize it. I think I already did my best and still my best wasn't good enough. Maybe the best thing you must do is before you let him know your feelings toward him, be sure that you'll never get hurt. Just be there for him always, wait for the time that he'll be the one to tell you that he loves you. Trust me it's very hard to tell someone that you love him, only to find out that you are only a friend to him. Ouch! it really hurts.
@loisse21 (214)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
i know its hard for you to keep the feelings for him.i understand and its really hard to fall for a friend.yes he is your friend,yes he always understands you,yes he's always there for you,yes he knows you and you know him...and yes you could tell him that you love him and yes your friendship is on the line..i've seen how many friendships deteriorated because of love.im not saying that its gonna be the same thing for you and your bestfriend but it would be better if you'll think before you leap. try to check out what would be his reaction.one friend of mine actually fell for her bestfriend and what she did is she asked to the guy to watch the movie MY BESTFRIENDS WEDDING then out of nowhere she asked him what if he was the guy there whom would he choose the bride or his bestfriend.apparently he chose the bestfriend.thats when she started out making the moves. but granted that the guy chose the bride,then she'll hide the feelings forever.i know you know your friend,its you who knows the strength of your friendship and to be all honest its only you who could decide.
@tallpaulno44a (1574)
• United States
20 Mar 07
How great for you! You should definitely show hinm how you feel about him. Have you gone out with him, just the two of you? Next time you are out together pay special attention to him, compliment him, ask him about subjects which you know are of interest to him. Initiate some casual physical contact (tap on the shoulder, quick squeeze of his hand, etc.). Show him that you are paying attention when he talks.
See how he responds to all this. You'll know very soon if he feels the same way about you.