You found something you shouldn't have, now what?
By andreaskye
@andreaskye (390)
United States
March 21, 2007 6:17pm CST
Ok, so here is the purely (ahem) hypothetical question?
You bring up your MySpace, just click on home and find you are on your significant others site instead. Oops.
Now then, curiousity is too much, you click on the unread message icon and find that there have been some totally, shall I say, risque' convos between he and various hot woman.
Now then, A, I know it is just the internet and B I have nothing against a little flirting. BUT, this was really just kind of "out there" stuff. One of the chicks fairly local.
Ok, and here comes the kicker on this one, this same Significant other goes whacko when another man makes comments on your pics on your MySpace that in no way compares to what he said, is even jealous of your son's friends if they are nice to you.
What do you do now? Do you move on and just accept it was a little fun? Do you admit you read the stuff and call him on it? Give me your purely (ahem) hypothtical opinion, guys and gals.
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@mouse27 (1155)
• Canada
22 Mar 07
i had an ex do this to me and i asked him questions about it in my situation i read the history on his msn after that he started deleting the history and empting the recycle bin. he gave me couple bull crap stories and i eventually got rid of him cause he couldn't tell the truth even his parents were telling me not to beleive anything he says
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@andreaskye (390)
• United States
22 Mar 07
Wow! Ok, that's an extreme case but good for you for standing up for yourself!
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@Michele21 (3093)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I would have to call him on it...I don't think I could let it go, but as I get older I can let more and more things go =) But I am only 25 so I have a ways to go. I think it would really bother me if my husband was flirting with other girls and all, I would definitely ask him why he was doing it. I would hate admiting to reading his messages and all but I would admit it to find out what is going on and if he said it is just fun and makes him feel good or whatever I would let it go. I would definitely have to say something though I couldn't keep it to myself =)
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@tweakpotter (745)
• United States
22 Mar 07
First off let me say, hypothetical shame on somebody for prying, snooping, being curious, whatever that person wants to call it. I hate that kind of stuff. An ex went through my phone and text messages, which caused an arguement that ended up breaking us up. Just to rant on that for a sec. Now onto the hypothetical problem at hand...
Confront the dude. Just tell him, "Look. This is what happened and this is what I read. what the h*ll is this?!"
I don't know dude as well as you, obviously, so ultimately it's going to be up to you to decide if you believe him or not. But from what it sounds like to me, he just isn't right. I think it may be time for a long talk, or possible change.
But that's just my two cents.
@andreaskye (390)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I have been waiting on you.
Hypothetical bowing of the head in shame for hypothetical snooping, however accidental.
Now then, I am no drama quene no matter what my MySpace pics may rep but you know there is some kind of point.
Gotta be. Whether i ever find it or not is another question.
Big hypothetical hugs.
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@tweakpotter (745)
• United States
22 Mar 07
Seriously, hun, just talk to him and feel him out. Use your women's sixth sense, I know you all ahve them - that's how men get caught in the first place, and see what you come up with. you need more help, we're all here, but I already threw in what I think so far.
