How many marriages are TOO many ?
By Alaria
@Alaria (59)
United States
March 21, 2007 9:01pm CST
Okay so I have been married twice. Second time is great. But what about those people that go from one marriage to another? To me, 3 is the max. Just my opinion. I have a friend who is on number 5! I want to ask her why! What do you think ?
5 responses
@ChrisRock619 (1040)
• United States
22 Mar 07
Well I believe when you get married that you should really know 100% that you love them and they love you. Also you must know 100% that things will work out. Sometimes people just rush into things and that's what can cause a world of problems. It's very important to spend lots of time with the person you are planning to marry so you can get to know they very well, then if there are any doubts, then it's not a good idea to go on with. I would say the first time should be the one and only time but anything over 2 times really isn't good at all. That's just my opinion though.
@isaacizlov (7)
• United States
22 Mar 07
i'm hoping to just get married once, we dont want our kids to have to deal with divorce. but thats different for everyone
@crimsonblues (1191)
• United States
22 Mar 07
It depends I guess.. I'd say three times - but thats just me.
@kyran_12 (643)
• India
22 Mar 07
i think the second marriage is the too many marriage thing , the best thing in life we do lot many times but ou
tstanding things happen just once ..... we take birth once, have one life, one soul and then love only ones belive or not.......marriage should be also once........cheers
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I'm thinkin maximize happiness for everybody
Ideally one marriage does that.
If it takes 15 then thats best.
I think make sure its love and that it is working, then maybe get married.
If I love somebody and she is caring for me and I'm happy, she would NOT have to worry about anything, married or not.
I would be thinking like she makes me happy, whats gonna make her happy? Then I would do that. Whatever thing it was.
@frogboots (93)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I think Three is the max as well. I don't understand why people keep getting married if they have that many. I am so pick and I know things happen, but really if the same thing keeps happening 4 5 6 times it is time to find something new. like for instance being single.