Alaria

@Alaria (59)

United States • Age 71

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Live With An Open Heart

Alaria's Activity

How many marriages are TOO many ?

Alaria @Alaria (59) • United States 21 Mar 07

Okay so I have been married twice. Second time is great. But what about those people that go from one marriage to another? To me, 3 is the max. Just my opinion. I have a friend who is on number 5! I want to ask her why! What do...

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Lakisha showed vulnerability...

brentonlee @brentonlee (127) • Malaysia 21 Mar 07

Lakisha, Lakisha...who else think she is a bit cocky and over-confident? Like last week she asked Diana Ross whether to use a mike stand or not and when advised to use one, she chose not to. This week, Lulu passionately pleaded...

american idol

diana ross

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Alaria I think Lakisha thinks she is all that AND more. I agree I think she is cocky and I believe the lack of humility will eventually work against her. She wants to set herself apart for the "attention" I believe. She will NOT be in the finals, this is My...

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Gambling...do you like to gamble & do you think it is wrong?

Alaria @Alaria (59) • United States 19 Mar 07

Gambling has ruined alot of peoples lives that I know & don't know. There are degrees of gambling and I know it can be an addiction. I wonder at what point do we have a problem and why do so many people love to do it. Any feedback...

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Blogging, please tell me what am I doing wrong

kryzell @kryzell (921) • Philippines 8 Jun 09

I am not really the best writer there is. But I am one of those, who would want to try out my potentials. I started making a blog a few weeks back, and to this date... I didn't earn a single penny. At first, I thought, it's just...

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Alaria I am not really the best writer there is. But I am one of those, who would want to try out my potentials. I started making a blog a few weeks back, and to this date... I didn't earn a single penny. At first, I thought, it's just fine, maybe it'll take a few...

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Are you a shopaholic? Or do you know someone who is?

Alaria @Alaria (59) • United States 17 Mar 07

I have a friend that shops constantly. when she is stressed, happy, sad, upset, tired, hungry....yep, she shops Her hubby doesn't even know how many credit cards they have. She has so much stuff it is scary. And she will say she...

shopaholic

shopping

spending

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Alaria Hi and thank you for your honesty and at least you are aware of this and you are taking measures to help yourself not go overboard. I need to stay away from the malls myself. I know the temtation you are talking about. Thank you again for your candid answer

19 Mar 07

Are you a shopaholic? Or do you know someone who is?

Alaria @Alaria (59) • United States 17 Mar 07

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Jimi Hendrix

getallica @getallica (76) • India 17 Mar 07

in brief period of his play he expanded the vocubalury of guitar play man he was just awesome with his guitar works

jimi

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Alaria Yes, I agree. He is my fave. I saw him perform in calif. at the Hollywood Bowl. Incredible ...and when he played Little Wing you could hear a pin drop. Absolutely mesmorizing. The fact that he played his guitar upside down too. And many people don't know...

17 Mar 07

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Drive-In Movies?

webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 16 Mar 07

How many recall the days of yore when the Drive-In was the daters hotspot? Where on Saturday nights car loads of teenagers could be seen necking? Where kids hid in trunks to get in for free? Where a car load would cost $5 or $10...

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Alaria Yes!! Thank you for taking me down memory lane Bob. Yes the swings, great cartoons....and the necking! lol...it was great. I remember that smell too in the snack bar, of pizza, hamburgers, & popcorn. I even worked there in the 60's. It was my first job. We...

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How Do you measure beauty and what is it to you?

Alaria @Alaria (59) • United States 17 Mar 07

Yes, I know Pamela Anderson is supposed to be the "IT" woman. But when I was a teen in the late 60's early 70's a persons' individuality was what was treasured. Some small chested women was thought just as beautiful a large...

How can you trust on your partner?

dumy4data @dumy4data (10) • India 17 Mar 07

I am going to be marry in next two month. i want to know and understand my life partner, but she is telling me truth or lieing me... how can i decide it? please help me...

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Alaria Go by your gut instincts as well as feeling secure within yourself. If you are not secure within yourself then you will never be able to trust. This is directly related to how you feel about you. If your self worth is healthy then you will be better able to...

17 Mar 07

WARNING!!! SCAM on EBAY

whiteheather39 @whiteheather39 (24403) • United States 16 Mar 07

As some of you know I posted an auto for sale on Ebay. When bidding or buying on Ebay you can ask the seller a question. My auto went on sale and the first day I got an email question, which was classified as being from a...

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Alaria I believe it is connected. Phishing is used all the time for identity theft. they most likely have other info on you and are able to track you happened to me ...change all your accounts asap. ASAP! Don't wait and take a chance okay a hassle but better than...

17 Mar 07

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i just cant believe it

godsangel @godsangel (105) • United States 14 Mar 07

will people please keep thier little kids away from the phone so they cant vote on american idol next week sanjaya needs to go!!!! i know the adults have more brains then that to vote for him at least i hope they do. and i also...

american idol

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Alaria He'll go next. Brandon forgot the words AND was off key too. Not that great but Sanjaya is a weak vocalist. The stylists pick their clothes at this point so unless she says I won't wear that she will wear what they choose for her. probably have a hard time...

17 Mar 07

What kind of salsa do you like?

Alaria @Alaria (59) • United States 17 Mar 07

I love salsas. Smokey is my fave with chipotle chilies (smoked jalapenos) or basically hot sometimes medium. What do you like?

salsa

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Alaria yum...yes the salty chips are good I agree

17 Mar 07

Do you ladies feel that sometimes you can do without him ?

Nikki83 @Nikki83 (164) • United States 17 Mar 07

sometimes i wish i wasn't married. Or a least waited for the real man of my dreams I mean don't get me wrong I love my husband with all my heart in some ways i just wish he was better in some ways like his cleaning behind himself...

being a wife

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Alaria hi no I never feel this way but sometimes I wonder what would happen if something happened to him. I have the man of my dreams so I feel fortunate. But I can relate because I felt the way you do about my first husband! But it did not last and I am glad...

17 Mar 07

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How many here love to eat seafood?

bluemestizo @bluemestizo (429) • United States 17 Mar 07

I am a big seafood lover. I just eat any type of it mixed in veggies or certain other meats. I enjoy them from oriental restaurants as well. I eat crab, squid, lobster, shrimp, shark, catfish, tilapia, tuna, octopus, sushi,...

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Alaria wow me too! Love all of it Mahi Mahi is good too. ceviche...yum tilapia is good, shark, crab Do you like mussels or oysters? I live in the Pacific NW and we have great seafood here. As long as it isn't overcooked. That is the worst...rubbery shrimp or...

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Taco Soup

crazynurse @crazynurse (7482) • United States 24 Feb 07

This is one of my family's favorite Mexican recipes!! It is really good on these cold winter days. TACO SOUP Ingredients: 1 lg onion 1pkg. taco seasoning mix 2 cups whole kernel corn,frozen works great 1 can chicken...

black beans

mexican

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Alaria Sounds okay except for the taco seasoning mix & canned beans. would rather have fresh beans and fresh spices. Chicken instead of beef too. Just my preference but this looks very hardy and yes I bet it is good on a cold day. Thank you for sharing that

17 Mar 07

What kind of salsa do you like?

Alaria @Alaria (59) • United States 17 Mar 07

I love salsas. Smokey is my fave with chipotle chilies (smoked jalapenos) or basically hot sometimes medium. What do you like?

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What is that stuff called?

resasour @resasour (378) • United States 16 Mar 07

I think it starts with a D, but i can't remember. Its diced tomatoes and spices that you usually get on your plate of lettuce at a Mexican Restaraunt. What is that stuff called and does anyone know how to make it? I like to mix...

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Alaria It is Pico De Gallo. Raw tomatoes diced, raw chilies usually serrano or jalapeno, onion, lime juice, salt & sometimes cilantro. Hope this helps.

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Does it HURT when someone removes you as FRIEND without a word?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 16 Mar 07

I am talking about myLot here. Last night just before I turned in, I saw an interesting discussion started by a "friend". I was puzzled why I received no email notification. After checking, I realised that he had deleted me as a...

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Alaria Oh well more than likely they don't even realize what they have done. Probably decided to just clean things out. Don't take it personally. Maybe they are going through something.Gosh I don't have even one friend on here! So hey, they will resurface. Give it...

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Can you read your dogs thoughts?

Alaria @Alaria (59) • United States 17 Mar 07

I sometimes guess exactly what my dog wants. My husband is baffled by this & jokingly I said I could read her mind. Do you think dogs can communicate with their minds?

communicating with animals

dogs

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