How Often do say "I LOVE YOU" to your kids?

@DonBasyo (215)
Philippines
March 25, 2007 3:51pm CST
I must say that the world today is fast... in fact too fast that we most often than not miss the small, little, sweet things in life that we shouldn't be missing... For once the moment is gone then it will be gone forever. More and more people are often stuck at their workstations at the office and most probably need to go overtime to make both ends meet... But in this busy world, how often do you slow down and watch your kids grow and pause for a moment to say "i love u son," or "i love u princess?"
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@gberlin (3836)
25 Mar 07
I say I love you everytime I talk to my son. He lives about 2500 miles away from me and we usually talk once a week. My daughter is living back at home again so I see her more often but I usually try to tell her at least once a week also. I want to make sure my kids know that I love them even though they are adults they are never to old to tell them that you love them.
@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
That is so great to let your sons feel how much you love them... Some of us (in our generation) may look at it awkwardly but I am so sure that it feels so good. Thank you very much and your responses has been + rated
• United States
26 Mar 07
I tell my boys everytime we talk as well. If my son calls on his cell...before we hang up he says he loves me and I tell him the same. When I go to work, I tell them I love them. When we each turn in for the night..we exchange I love you's. I dont think you can wear out those words. Yes..a lot of the time it is reaction to just say it. Doesnt mean I dont mean it any less :)
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25 Mar 07
I do like to tell my children that I love them. I don't do it at a regular time of the day though. I find that if people say it to me when I go to bed every night for example I find it doesn't mean as much as when they say it when something nice happens between us.
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@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
I see your point, of course these three words are precious and should not be worn out... Then maybe I need to rephrase my question: How often is an event to your life that makes say ilove you to your kids? Thak you very much, your response has been + marked
@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
That is great, it only proves that parents can work and achieve their professional careers and still be felt by their kids Thank you very much and your response has been + rated
@egay679 (152)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
i try to say i love you to my daughter as often as possible because it helps our bonding relationship to become stronger. i am a working mom and i only have time for my daughter when i got home from work, usually, in the afternoon. even without saying i love you, i manage to hug and cuddle my daughter to express my love to her. at night, before going to sleep, i always tell her that i love her.
@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
Relationships are never instant...the need to invest on it is very important.so basically it is true that bonding with your children makes your relationship with them more stable. Thank you very much and your response has been + rated
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
If i have a kids...I Wanted to tell them everyday that i love them so much.
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@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
Wow... Everyday is a lovely day... We shouldn't be thirty with our expressions of love... That is right, we should do it everyday Thank you very much and your response has been + marked
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
I have a small brother aged 9. I am 25 and my other brother is 24. My mom had our youngest when i was 17. So now our youngest is the pet of the family. In a day, i can see and here my mom hug and say I love you to my brother and she says it a lot of times.
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@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
Well that is the perks of being the last born... Do you say I love you to your sibling as often? Thank you very much and you have been + marked
• United States
26 Mar 07
I tell them I love them all the time, probably about 15 times a day. i tell them in the morning, after hugs (we hug alot!) I tell them before bed, if i'm leaving to go somewhere, when I get back, etc. I don't believe that the words "I love you" can get worn out to a child. And they know that I mean it with all my heart. They tell me they love me throughout the day also. Everytime they say it, I still smile. :)
@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
True... It is not for a child to qualify the things that come from you. For them everything is simple. "Iloveyou" means I love you. PLain and simple and letting them that you do love them everyday for 15 times or more won't diminish the value of which. For the truth is simple... You love your children... Thank you very much and your response has been + marked
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I tell my kids every day. In the morning right before they go off to catch the bus for school I make shure I tell them I love them. When I take my 3yr old to pre-school I sign her in she hangs up her coat and I refuse to leave her classroom untill I get a hug and a kiss from her and I tell herthat I love her and I will pick her up later. At bed time when my husband and I are tuckingthe girls in to bed we both spend a few minutes with each child and tell them we are proud ofthem and tell them we love them. Then we will spend some quality time together.
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@Foxxee (3651)
• United States
25 Mar 07
I tell both of my kids that I love them all day long, everyday! I never miss a day without saying "I Love You" and I always hug them throughout the day. I grew up with my parents telling me they love me everyday and always right before bed, so it was passed down to me and I'm hoping my kids will spread the love to their kids. Everyone should take a few seconds to tell their child "I Love You!"
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@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
I must say that more parents should follow your example... Thank you very much and your response has been + rated
• United States
26 Mar 07
I tell mine that all the time. Sometimes I leave a little note for them to find somewhere in their room or backpack also. I always hope it gives them a little pick me up for the day at school when they find it. Sometimes on the weekend when I'm working and they are home, I call to just tell them I miss them and love them.
@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
That is so innovative... I could just imagine how your kids would discover and read your notes and smile... Thank you very much and your response has been + rated
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
i always say i love you to my baby everyday
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• Canada
26 Mar 07
I am very big on making sure my children know that they are loved! I tell them when they get up in the morning, before they leave for school, when I look at them and realize how much and how fast they are growing up. I tell tehm before we part, for either them to go play with friends or for me to go to my night job or the store. I randomly will grab one (I have four) at several times through out a day, and give them a big hug and tell them how much I Love them. I tell them how much I love them before I go to bed. I know it may sound like over kill, but I grew up in a home where I never heard those word, except for a few slight occasions. I vowed my children would always know how special they were to me, and how much I loved them each and everyday. Because of this practice I have very strong and close bonds with my children, and I am secure enough with that special love, that I can allow them to grow in to the people that they will become in life, supporting them through the good times and the bad times.
@netski_15 (423)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
Saying "i love you" is just so hard for some people. I am not sure if this is ego-driven or just so ashmed to utter the words of love even to their kids. For me I say it everyday to my kid. It's my thinking that the often I say it to him, he'll learn to respond back to me when he grows up without shame and hesitations.
@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
yeah I must agree there is this unseen uneasiness for some people to say i love you... I seem cannot understand why have developed this kind of uneasiness? Thank you very much your response has been + rated
@bad1981 (799)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I tell my kids at least 3 times day that I love them and they are the best thing in the world to me. I always tell them that nobody can tell them anything negative about their self because they are a beautiful person no matter what anyone thinks. They may be small but by the time they reach school they will have all good feelings about themselves. My kids know they are loved everyday by our actions and words.
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@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
That is the best wa to secure your kids self-esteem... It is very important for kids today to have self-esteem especially when their parents are away. Thank you very much and your response has been + rated
• United States
26 Mar 07
I tell my baby boy that I love him everyday but i still think it's still not enoughn for him. I call him my little man and that that i love him with all of my heart. I also give the biggest hug i can give to him.
@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
Awwwww... that is so sweet... Thank you very much and your response has been + rated
@inked4life (4224)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I tell them that I love them every day, usually a few times a day actually. I think it's really important to reinforce your love for them on a regular basis.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
25 Mar 07
There is a commercial on tv/radio in my corner of the world (Canada) and it shows a parent kissing their child at night tucking the child in and the child is just that, a young child, the next morning the child has become a teen (say 16 or 17) and the emphasis on the commericial is to save for college...but, the commerical is true because while slightly exagerated, kids DO grow up fast. Their home is their only place that they feel safe and loved...parents, the basis of most kid's self esteem...by saying i love you, this makes them feel special and appreciated and loved.
@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
Yeah I must agree... It is going to be a cruel world out there and we are a minute a way to eaten by its wolves... By saying I love you to your kids would not just build them self esteem. It will make us indestructible
@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
Yeah I must agree... It is going to be a cruel world out there and we are a minute a way to eaten by its wolves... By saying I love you to your kids would not just build them self esteem. It will make us indestructible Thank you very much your response has been maked the best.
• China
26 Mar 07
I'm really lucky,I have a couple of good parents who given me free & happy childhood. I work hard, and hope I can give them a health & carefree time in their old age also. Though Work & studay is busy,but I try my best to save time and stay with my kindly parents,my grandmother and my little brother together. "Come On",I always said to myself.
• United States
29 Mar 07
I tell my daughter that "I love her" everyday, in person and on the phone no matter who's around her. Being a teen you would think it emberasses her but it doesn't. If I go to her school to drop somethig off she kisses me and tells me she loves me in front of the whole school.
@sunjinwei (104)
• China
26 Mar 07
I am a student .But my parents seldem say i love you.
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• United States
26 Mar 07
I have 2 teenagers (19 & 15 next month)..I tell my 15 yr old I love her everynight before she goes to bed..My 19 yr old is in collage but always tell him when he calls (usually for money) or comes home..When they were younger I use to tell them and hug them when dropping them off at school but now they just think they are too old to be hugged..Kids can never hear "I love you " too much..well no one can..everyone wants to know they are loved no matter how old.
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