How to help my sister?
By DogkcuD
@DogkcuD (15)
China
March 26, 2007 4:58am CST
My younger sister is 13 years old and in junior high school.You know,the girls in this age are growing fast both in psychics and in physiology.I think there are some problems between her and her mother.She is bored to talk with her mother,and claims that her mother don't understand her.So she says no word once she enters her home.More worse,she don't have a good study in classes.
How could I help her?Eager for some suggests.
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4 responses
@Robertsin (39)
• India
26 Mar 07
Children when they are in growing stage, they assume themselves that they have grown and became elders in a short period, but they are just ready to get matured both physically and mentally, usually at that age children won't listen to any one. They need love and some affection, then they can understand. If you scold they will scold you back, don't do that, show love then they will realize for every thing. Even more of love can also spoil them. appreciate her and encourage her its better.
@liangrifle (116)
• China
27 Mar 07
there is no generational gas between you and your sister,so you are the best candidate to talk more with her.of course,maybe there is something difficult to talk,but i think the other things is necessary.
@michelledarcy (5220)
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26 Mar 07
I had the same problem with my mother when I was that age. I think that it is quite normal for girls to clash with their mothers.
Perhaps you should talk to her father and see if he can talk to her instead.
If she isn't doing well in school perhaps it could be worth schooling her at home instead. This will help her relationship with her parents and she will learn better with one to one guidence.
