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For God's sake please don't ruin your marriage..Always this can be a problem because you end up doing the every day boring things with your husband or wife and sometimes take each other for granted and when someone else who is interesting comes along you get excited and it's something new but don't let this ruin your marriage. This girl must think if she was YOUR wife how would she feel if she was being cheated on? Cheating is cheating..even if you are thinking of this woman when you are making love to your wife..it is stillcheating..Tell her if she cannot just be like a platonic/sister friend it cannot work. It is different id you were already separated/divorced..then no problem but if SHE is going to be the result of causing problems in your marriage I think it is better for you to spend more time with your wife. Get off the computer and take your wife out for a date. Get her to puton her best dress and take HER OUT.instead of thinking of having fun with this new girl. I care that is why I am writing all this.. you look after yourself..very easy to go for the shiny and glittery things..but don't throw away the jade for a piece of lass zhidai? ni de xilaren sis..

If she is truly a good friend she would understand that you are already in a committed relationship and respect that. It's not fair to your wife if you start a relationship with her beyond friendship. Think before you act. Sometimes he decisions we make can cause major negative life changes.

Actually all you need to do is to let her understand that you are committed and that you appreciate she admitted to you her feelings but friendship is all that you can offer.. That's one thing I'm really afraid of in my relationship before, what if my bf run into something like this.. I would go crazy.. Just let her know your feelings also and explain to her that this kind of situation might lead to problems which might troubled you and your family.. Does your wife knows about this?