freedomtowork

@freedomtowork (45)

United States • Age 52

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what about this idea?

paradisesuns @paradisesuns (1754) • United States 26 Mar 07

Some people may not like this idea...but what if there was an option to choose "worst response"...Would you use it? I know there are times when the spammers respond with stupid replies that I think this option would really come in...

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freedomtowork I think this is a great idea. It can be so aggravating to have someone answer with a dumb response. I know for sure that I would use that option if it were available.

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Instead of frosting on cakes and cupcakes, try this.

margieanneart @margieanneart (26423) • United States 26 Mar 07

Just for a change. If you bake a cake or cupcakes, forget the frosting. Buy a can of pie filling, heat it, and pour it over the cake or cup cakes, serve with ice cream on top. When heating the pie filling, let it evaporate a...

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freedomtowork That sounds oh so good. I'm definitely going to give this a try. It's so simple to do and I don't think I could mess it up. Thanks so much.

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im just, depressed.

xlyingxwhispersx @xlyingxwhispersx (721) • United States 26 Mar 07

I cant seem to get out of bed, to stop fighting with my fiance; to just relax. Im broke, so behind on bills, our relationship is going to hell. How do you guys deal with depression?? Im 18, and geez, the real world is tough. I...

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freedomtowork I understand how you feel. Sometimes stress from day to day life can really take it's toll on you. Money problems can be one of the worst. Alot of the time we must make a decision to make a change. I know it's hard to not let your feelings takeover your mood....

26 Mar 07

Sister in-law issues...

Ricgav_30 @Ricgav_30 (71) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

I really had a hard time dealing with my sister in-law. She's about 22 years old and staying with us as we are supporting her schooling. At first year of stayin with us, she's ok...but on the following years you can alreay see...

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freedomtowork She is definitely too old to be disciplined. You aren't expecting too much of her. After all, you and your husband are supporting her. It's a shame that there are family members that take advantage of a kind heart. Maybe she needs to go out on her own and...

26 Mar 07

we did it!! at last my first youtube video!! that's why i was busy!!

yanjiaren @yanjiaren (9031) 25 Mar 07

Sorry guys i haven't replied to posts but only at weekend my hubby has time to do all this recording etc..At last it has just come on my first youtube video..we worked very hard ,my heo and i lol..please come and give me some...

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freedomtowork Great video. I loved your outfit and you have a beautiful voice. I haven't upload my first video yet, but I think you have given me the courage to do it.

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Punishing

tator_tot8073 @tator_tot8073 (698) • United States 28 Feb 07

Do you think that it is appropriate to punish your children in public??? The reason I am asking this because I have seen many people do it. I personally think that if your child needs to be punished it should be done in privacy....

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freedomtowork When I was a kid my parents had a system that kept me in line. It worked so well that all it took was one look and I knew to settle down. Before I would go out with my parents each day, they would let me know the do's and don'ts of behaving. I couldn't bear...

26 Mar 07

Do children need other children?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 26 Mar 07

My first daughter had very little child company as she was growing up (until she started playgroup at 3) and she is a confident, well rounded and bright 5 year old with loads of friends. My 2 year old has been going to toddler...

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freedomtowork I think it is a combination of both. Kids need to be around other kids of their own age because it helps them to adjust. As a parent it is very important that you also guide them through these delicate stages. You can help mold them into wonderful adults that...

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clothes comming back ruined

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 25 Mar 07

my daughter goes to her father's every second weekend. if she wears her clothes over there he seems to leave it on all weekend and it comes back discusting and stained and he doens't wash them. she can wear clothes until she...

clothes

parenting

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freedomtowork I hate to say it but sometimes men do not understand the fact of keeping your child and self clean. No, you are not asking to much for him to take a little time and clean his own daughter. It seems that he is only thinking of himself and not the welfare of...

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Need Some Serious Alone Time--Does it make me a bad mommy?

vokey9472 @vokey9472 (1486) • United States 26 Mar 07

Ok, I am in need of some serious alone time and I feel guilty about wanting it. I am a stay at home mommy and my husband works from home. I find myself feeling like I am going crazy sometimes and I want to be alone so badly. I...

alone time

kids overnight

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freedomtowork You deserve alone time to relax and recuperate from the stress of parenting. It's you right to grab a few hours of rest. Don't beat yourself up about this. You're not a bad person for wanting it, only human.

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is it ok to marry a girl who is 2 years older to you?what do you think.

love_maniac90 @love_maniac90 (1237) • India 7 Nov 06

its not a issue now a days.time has been changed a lot.In love,age does not matter,what matters truw attraction to each other.what do u say?

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freedomtowork Age should not really matter unless you are an adult and the other person is under 18. As long as both of you are in love and have things in common, then you would be off to a good start.

26 Mar 07

will you marry someone to whom you were engaged and got raped by someone else?

ackars @ackars (1942) • India 26 Mar 07

Will you marry a gal who was engaged to you and later got raped before you marry her...??You have loved her so much but later this incident happens..what will be your stance on this...?

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freedomtowork If you really do love her then it will not matter if she was raped. After all, it wasn't her fault that it happened. Just be supportive and help her get over this traumatic experience.

26 Mar 07

What Makes You Happy?

vokey9472 @vokey9472 (1486) • United States 26 Mar 07

I was thinking about what makes people happy and I was wondering what makes different people happy. I had to really think about it for myself and it made me realize that at different times in our lives, different things make us...

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life

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freedomtowork The thing that makes me happy right now is being able to have peace and quiet. Not having to worry about stressful situations. I love being able to just relax and pamper myself with some of my favorite things. Life can be so hectic and we need a break.

26 Mar 07

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make friend

nature380 @nature380 (28) • China 26 Mar 07

i have a good friend on the net . she said that she loves me . but i have been married . but she told me she didn't mind that . i don't know what to say to her .could you help me ?

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freedomtowork If she is truly a good friend she would understand that you are already in a committed relationship and respect that. It's not fair to your wife if you start a relationship with her beyond friendship. Think before you act. Sometimes he decisions we make can...

26 Mar 07

arrange marriage?

merlblue @merlblue (275) • United Arab Emirates 24 Mar 07

do you agree on arrange marriage by the parents? does it work?

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freedomtowork I personally would not want an arranged marriage but I know lots of other cultures do it. I don't think it is wrong if you decide to do it. Some times the marriage will last longer than one based totally on emotions.

26 Mar 07

i still love him BUT...

mylesnarvaez @mylesnarvaez (5450) • Philippines 25 Mar 07

i'm having a lot of second thoughts lately. this week was probably the lowest of low points in my relationship with my boyfriend. i really love the guy, there is no doubt about that. i have always been the giver in this...

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freedomtowork Take this as a sign that you really need to re-evaluate your relationship. Seems like he is not taking is seriously after you have discussed your feelings with him. I think guys sometimes take us for granted and think we will always be there for them even when...

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Cannot Get Old Boyfriend Out of My Head--What could it mean?

vokey9472 @vokey9472 (1486) • United States 26 Mar 07

I have a problem that is really starting to bother me. Lately, I cannot get an old boyfriend out of my head. I think about him, alot! I think about how he looked, how he dressed, what made him laugh. I can actually hear him in my...

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memories

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freedomtowork I agree with your sister. Thinking about your ex alot indicates that you are not happy with your marriage and your mind is looking for comfort. It just so happens that your comfort point right now is your ex. Don't beat yourself up about it because sometimes...

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