I don't where to go
By freshrainer
@freshrainer (284)
China
March 26, 2007 10:10am CST
just like a singer said: I stood at the crossing of a busy street, but I did not know where to go, and I can't see where my future is.
3 years ago, I went to a remote county to work as a teacher. you can't imagine the place is 1000 miles away from my hometown. at that time, I had few friends. three years later, now I do have many friends, but I long for a quiet place just like my hometown in a mountain. I enjoy the environment really.however, I like my job here. what's more, to find a job nowadays in China is not so easy. on the other hand, it hurts me deeply when I think of my eldly parents. they just have one son and who can take care of them? I even want them to come here to live with me, but they refused because they have lived in the mountain almost a whole life. these years, I had to break up with my several girl friends because they never wanted to return with me to my hometown.
I really didnot know where go
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3 responses
@caribe (2465)
• United States
26 Mar 07
You will just have to go with your best judgment of the situation. I understand that you are in quite a dilemma. You will have to do what you are comfortable with. Nobody else has to live with the consequences of your decision except you. Good luck to you in making the right decision.
@freshrainer (284)
• China
27 Mar 07
thank you. often I feel one does not live for himself only.
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@madhuri567 (302)
• India
3 Jun 07
Better look for a job in yur hometown..yu will be near to yur beloved parents and family and frnds..Try to come out with a idea that can settle in life..yur in astage where yu know wat is bad and wat is good..analyse and follow
@anubias2 (64)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
If you ask me I also like a quiet place to live, it is very hard to earn a living so you have to leave your parents in a nice place ,for me I will priorities the earnings unless I can replace a job at your home or at least near your home, second try to ask your parents to have a vacation with you maybe they might change their mind, don't be huury finding a girlfriend , maybe you can find somebody who understand you and help you find all both end meet together.Do what you have now, then gradually find a bridge to reach your goal in life .
