Do you feel shame with a no response post? Let me get rid of it!

Do not feel shame please. It happens to all of us. It is still possible that someone will respond, don't give up hope. There are many people that prefer to respond to discussions with no or few responses. It gives them a better chance to be seen and heard. I think some topics can be hot one day, and cold the next and visa versa. It just depends on the way things flow. You may not have a response now, and in a month from now, you will get one to it. There are hundreds/thousands of people joining myLot everyday. So, never feel shame, just because one of your discussion doesn't bring an immediate response. Happy posting.

i have a couple . I wonder what I did wrong?

Well, great offers would never be refused ;) I don't have without a response yet but sometimes really it feels that we are here but nobody is willing to hear us! This is the fact that one having no heed would really disheart. I would request only that if you find any of my discussion worthy to have your attention, I would be grateful for your response. Thanks for offer and encouragement.

I have a few, I feel bad too that no one answered them

I have a few discussions with no responses, but they are in very select catagories, like Australian Cattle Dogs. If people reply, that's great. If they don't, oh well. Maybe someday somebody will come across them and enjoy answering them. Doesn't bother too much, just a little. LOL.

I think I've got a couple with no responses, but more that just have 1 or 2 responses. When I'm looking a topics to respond to, I generally go for those that don't have responses, 1) so I can help the person out, and 2) because a response to a newer post with little or no activity is going to be appreciated/noticed by the poster and you'll probably get a response to your comment.

No i dont feel any shame.Why shall i?I just hope that i get some good rewponses and get helped in other aspects for which i m at mylot.

i have a few but it i am not bothered by it. I guess some of the discussions that i started is not that appealing to other people. So its ok. ^_^

fortunately, i havent experience that i have started a new discussion but no one responses.i think we must choose the right and interesting topics that could caught the attention of the mylotters..for me, its okay that i got no responses from my discussion atleast i try to post a discussion..

I'm a newbie here and had only posted 2 yet. When I got an email notification that there is a responder on my very first post yet. My heart beats fast. I was thinking what will be the response. Is it negative or positive? Will it affect me? When I read the response, I learned that it is up to us on how to take it and handle it. So, in my second post, I am already confident whatever response that may be posted. But, I received no response. What I feel? I feel nothing. I don't feel shame at all. I just think that maybe no one wants to discuss about it, or no one likes the subject, or they don't know how to respond on the topic, or no one had read the discussion.

My very first discussion had no response and i was floored, i really thought it was a good topic. Nevertheless i moved on and picked up tips from mylotters on how to get responses for my discussions but unfortunately i've never been able to cross the 10 responses mark.I just keep trying.

One discussion with no response? That's good. I lay "eggs" (I call them) all the time! I'm not so much ashamed as I feel out of step with everybody. The discussions I post are things I'm interested in, so feel really wierd that I'm the only one. That and having them on my unresolved discussions bugs me!

I have one discussion i started which has no response and its going 4 days already. Its okay, maybe i didnt post an intersting enough topic. You dont have to take it personally. Maybe your trying to start a discussion about an obscure topic which not everyone can relate to or is familiar. Then just try again.

I Think that i Have To But Idunt Stop On That... I Already used to Not Make Anything Stop Me In Ma Steps Forward... So I Stop Writing A DIscussions And Waiting TO FOund Serious Subject TO Discuss About... So I can discuss With People On My Lot.... THnx For caring About Ppl Which Havent responses lol

I have had a few no responses but I don't let it bother me.I try to spend an hour a day going through these posts and answering them.....someone on my friends list did this for me so that I wouldn't have them.That's what we are here for,to help each other out!

There is nothing to feel ashamed about not getting responses , but it sure is depressing, you just loose intrest in writing. It make you feel inferior and your moral is diminished. some times a simple senseless discussion gets so many responses which is not even worth....but you can't help it....people have different mentalities....I don't take it so seriously if my discussions are not responded....... I move on..........I remember when I joined I had no friends, but now I have some good friends too.....it is ok.......

I have some. and feel sad to see them. i don't know how to get rid of it

it does bother me when i write a discussion and get no response.but i guess when you just here a week or so people need to get to know you before they really want to read your stuff..i'm hoping to increse my number of repsonse in the upcoming weeks.I do try hard to post responses to anyone on my friends list Cheryl

I do have a discussion that has no or 1 response on it, I felt kinda bad because I wanna hear everybody's opinion about it but nobody or 1 replied to it.. I also wanna know and understand how other people here on mylot thinks because I know we all came from different countries and cultures..

i had a post with no responses at all. i didn't feel ashamed. indeed it even encouraged me to post new quality discussions which would attract members to reply. you see, whenever you post something it should be specific, clearer and in details so that the members would understand what you are talking about. try also to give titles of your discussions quite intriguing so that members would have to go through your posted topic.