what if your wife slept with your best friend??
By emkay74
@emkay74 (15)
Malaysia
March 26, 2007 10:47pm CST
A friend of mine, really mad when he found out that his wife slept with his best friend. It happened not once but many times in his house while he was away home. He is a good man,soft spoken but i could not believe that his wife had done such thing. it is not fair.
I am thinking what if it happened to you??What would you do??then.
5 responses
@sapphiresage (431)
• United States
3 Apr 07
I find it interesting that nobody questions the wife's reasons for what she did. Does her husband leave her perpetually unsatisfied? That is cruel in itself, and over time can kill a woman's respect for her husband.
Obviously, there are two sides to every story and she and he are the only ones who know what the -real- reasons are.
@Savvynlady (3684)
• United States
28 Mar 07
Well, she don't have her husband's back and she's disrespecting the home he made with her; totally. three kids or not, you don't do that in the home you made with someone you made vows to. too disrespectful.
@lucy67 (819)
• China
27 Mar 07
terribly sorry for your friend. he lost his best friend as well as his wife. but we'd better not mention "best friend" here. how can a best friend do such a thing? if it happened to me, i don't know what i would do. getting divorced is certain but i don't know what else i would probably do.
@happy2bmommy (305)
• United States
27 Mar 07
that is horrible! is he still with her? if so, why does he accept that kind of treatment? in my opinion, i would have left that relationship in a split second. there is no doubt in my mind that i would never be able to accept such treatment from anyone. the way i see it, if a man loves me, he is not going to do such a thing to hurt me. i wouldnt have accepted it to happen once, much less for him to have done it over and over. my husband and i have one son and another baby on the way, if he ever did something so horrible, he knows that i would do my best to keep the kids away from him. i have already told him that if he ever cheated on me, he can pretty much act like if he had never met me and never had a family. if he wasnt man enough to tell me that he was not in love with me anymore, then he is not man enough to have children. i would hope that leaving him lonely (as far as the kids and i) would make him regret his stupid decision to cheat and change him as a person. i would never go back to him though. i would never be able to forgive him and i would never be able to trust him ever again. i would always look at him with disgust and probably hate.
