cheat

@jnetkris (213)
United States
March 27, 2007 11:43pm CST
why do you think some people cheat?
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6 responses
SweetTrix
@SweetTrix (1071)
• United States
28 Mar 07
Sometimes they don't want to confront their partner that they no longer want to be with them, so rather than cause hurt they decide to move on by themselves and cheat. Of course if the other partner being cheated on finds out there will be more hurt than if it was ended on better terms. Others find it as a thrill to see how many partners they can have with out being caught. I have cheated on one of my ex's before, but that is because he treated me like crap. But I told him I was going to go out with another guy, and whatever happens happens. Nothing really happened, just cuddling and him comforting me ..... but I let my ex think whatever he wanted to. I guess revenge is another reason, at least that was mine. I didn't feel regret. Anyways, I guess everyone has their own reason.
SweetTrix
@SweetTrix (1071)
• United States
28 Mar 07
Yeah, its very lame. I t jsut shows some people would rather ruin any friendship they would have had if they hadn't cheated. Thats why I didn't start dating until I was almost 18, I saw all my friends get hurt and I didn't wan to go through that.
jnetkris
@jnetkris (213)
• United States
28 Mar 07
thanks for your good response =) yeah it maybe true that's it one way for them to get out of relationship... But don't you think its a sad & lame way?
davenzx
@davenzx (68)
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
bec of lack of love within a realionships they have. and also for the influence of other people around them...
jnetkris
@jnetkris (213)
• United States
28 Mar 07
or maybe there is really no love within the two of them. they just think they do =(
danishcanadian
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
28 Mar 07
People cheat because of low self confidence, and selfishness.
Amber
@AmbiePam (92099)
• United States
29 Mar 07
I think sometimes people cheat out of greed, sometimes fear of failure, and sometimes because they know they can get away with it. That never makes it OK though.
sweete
@sweete (14)
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
i do admit dat i cheat!!coz its necessary hehe....
jnetkris
@jnetkris (213)
• United States
28 Mar 07
how can u say its necessary? =)
ycnanrealo
@ycnanrealo (63)
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
maybe because they don't love their wife or gf anymore... or they just want something new... but one thing is for sure... those who are cheated will be hurt
jnetkris
@jnetkris (213)
• United States
28 Mar 07
oh my.. how will true love fade anyways? if it fades, i think it aint true. but yes cheating hurts