would you have married your partners if you knew all their qualities earlier?

If I had know my husbands qualities he had the first 5 years of our marriage~ no, I wouldn't have married him. But we all grow and change. The qualities he has displayed the last 15 years of our marriage~ yes, I definitely would marry him again.

just this morning I was joking with my new husband (of 7 months) that if I knew he was so messy I wouldn't have married him, but then again, I guess I would have to stay single cos so are the majority of other males, huh? No offense guys..we have our issues too :)

yes and no! marraige is a requirement for me because i live in a joint family. and no because deep inside i do not beleive in monogamy. the worst thing is i`m not even cheating on my wife!

Honestly, when I got married I was 21. My husband and I had a long distance relationship for almost 4 years before we got married due to me being in school. So are relatioship consisted of lots of phone conversations, weekend visit as well as vacations in the summer and spring. So when we got married a lot of things were a shock for us because we weren't in the same town for years and didn't interact on a day to day basis. All we knew is that we loved each other and so we had a real reality check when we got married lol. The only thing I would've changed is that I would've waited longer and discovered some things. But now that we are married we just discovered them together.