the "THIRD PARTY"
By akinad
@akinad (446)
Philippines
March 28, 2007 10:45pm CST
i always wonder why other people choose to be with someone who they know is already committed to the other person..taken...what makes them think that they'll be happy knowing that their relationship is hurting other people's feelings..is love enough to put yourself into this kind of mess?awhile ago i was chatting with my friend..she told me she is now with this guy who is still attached to his current gf..i asked.."what does it make you??a querida??she just laughed and told me that she really like this guy despite the current "situation"..she again told me that it's really nothing..anyway the guy is planning to get rid of the girlfriend..
but the point is they're still in a relationship where there are other people involve..i know a lot of person would agree to this..it's not really fair to the current girlfriend that there is something ugly happening behind her back..
i just adviced my friend to backoff for awhile..until the guy breakk it off with his gf..that's when she'll know if the guy is really serious with her..and after all "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND"..RIGHT??they maybe seriously dealing with KARMA right now huh??
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4 responses
@michellecleofe (38)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
i agree to what you said...but i can't much defend our stand coz i know a person who also loves someone who is currently in a relationship...anyway third party really sucks...that's all i can say
@AnoChaudhary (1719)
• India
30 Mar 07
Ok if you really "fall hard" for a person who is committed and you are not aware of the sitution and then you know that the person is committed it is really diffcult to get yourself out of the sitution. But it is very important for all three people that U SHOULD get yourself out of it. Theres simply no point in breaking up a committed relationship however bad it maybe. First give the guy enough time to "settle" things in his heart and mind. And if you truly love the person you should be prepared to accept both decisions that is if he breaksup with the current relationship on his own with any interference from you its good for you ofcourse but if decides he wants to give the current relationship another chance you should be ready to accept that as well. Afterall true love is when you put another person's happiness before yours. And yes what goes around will come around...it holds good for the good stuff as well you know!! So maybe you will end up finding a person who puts your happiness before his!!
@pilbara (1436)
• Australia
29 Mar 07
I often think so myself. I can understand it if you don't know the other person is in a relationship, but I would feel so guilty if I got involved with someone who is already taken.
I think it is just pure selfishness - my pleasure is more important than the fact that I am hurting someone else.
Also if he is cheating on his gf with your friend, then it is odds on he will cheat on her if they end up together.
@mummyofthree (2715)
•
30 Mar 07
I think maybe the individual likes the thrill and danger of it all. The good bits of a relationship without the bad. Perhaps they think he will genuinly leave his girlfriend!
I personally couldn't do it. I couldn't be with someone knowing that they go back to someone else at night.
It's a very odd situation. I once knew a woman in her 40's that had been having a relationship with a married man for the last ten years. She told me that his wife knew about it. I never did understand how that worked!
Have a nice day.
