If a guy has a girlfriend should he go to strip clubs?

I dont think it is a good thing. My guy went a couple of times, but he hasnt gone in a long time. I dont really appreciate it as he is paying some other girl to be sexy for him. But now that we have a daughter he has stayed away.

if i'm the girlfriend, no! it would trigger a lot of issues. it may start something not really good, so why risk? it's also like cheating even with no strings attached.. it still is cheating.. right?

This is a thrust thing. If the girlfriend really trusts the boyfriend, she will have no issue with him going out to a strip club. If the boyfriend truly trusts and loves his girlfriend, he will not do anything to hurt her or embarrass her, like going to a strip club.

I live in an area that has one strip club and even though Hubby NEVER goes to it,it wouldn't bother me if he did.....I go once a year when the Chippen Dales come so why can't he play too?As long as there is no touching,yes,I believe he should be allowed.....I know no one would tell me I couldn't go.....

welll ... , Robyn can i know wat is this strip club all bout is it different kinda ? were naked garls dance etc etc ? holla back im just 16yr i dunno much regards :)

I think it works against a relationship in the early stages to indulge this. If the guy wants to do it, then he is placing a priority on the party lifestyle, which is his right, but it isn't a positive for a committed relationship in the early stages.

Why should a woman let a guy continuosly treat her as if she is never going to be number one? Men going to strip clubs is the same exact thing as their girlfriend paying money to see a guy with a bigger package and nicer body than her boyfriend. Except woman dont do it half as often as men. I think this topic has a lot to do with what you expect from the relationship. IF its long term than the guy should already know better. I think this topic comes into play with woman rights and how the world treats us unfairly and expects us to just "cope" with whatever they bring to the table. No its not right nor will it ever be right to underappreciate your girl.

Actually i wouldn´t mind if my bf wanted to go, it is just a stripclub and for me it is not cheating. He´s not interested in it though.

Personally, I don't have a problem if my man wanted to go to the strip club. For me, it stems from my own securities. I'm not a insecure female nor do I find that him going to a strip club he's looking for something else. I've been to a couple of my friends bachelorette parties where there are male strippers and it wouldn't bother him. I believe it's all in how that person feels. Even male shows and it has nothing to do with me feeling like my man is not sexy enough. It's a girl thing for some, just as going to strip club with their boys is just one of those male things. That applies to couples who are content, trust, not insecure and honest with one another. However, If it bothers you, my suggestion would be to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Why you don't like it. Hopefully you two will come to some aggreement that works for both of you.

Robyn If the couple has agreed to the guy going to strip joints then that is ok for them, but you are uncomfortable with it. You are mosre than likely hurt and offended and I think he's a crum for offending you like this. How long have you guy been going together? I think he is not showing respect to you and that would be worse than anything. What are you going to do? Depending on how long you've been together...how long will you put up with his bad behavior? Good luck to you. Some men are not nice to those they PROFESS to care for and love. Let me know, ok?

if you decided to buy a new car would you stop looking at cars???just because hes looking dont mean he will buy!

That's not right for a guy to go the strip clubs when he has a nice girlfriend and things are goning well. Even if things aren't going well he still shouldn't attend strip clubs. That's infidelity and is opening doors to began unfaithfulness. If you don't want to be faithful why have a girlfriend at all. Why not just play the field and be non-committed?

in our relationship, it's me who usually force my boyfriend to go with me to strip clubs.

As long as his girlfriend is with him at the strip club.

Guys have a tendancy to unappreciate what they have and appreciate what they can't have. Its sick really, it stems from the fact that they are more immature than us. Never let your guy unappreciate you. Tell him how it makes you feel, sounds like this guy isn't ready to commit. You can do better babe, seek elswhere. (Creep by TLC) Thats a great song during times like these.

I don't see anything wrong with it as long as the guy is upfront with the girl, although I like to go to strip clubs and will usually ask my boyfriend to take me, and most times surprisingly they offer discounts to couples to come out to the clubs.

Looking at other people is human nature, you can't expect anyone to put on blinders just because they are in a relationship. Honestly, I don't have a probable with my boyfrend going to a strip club and sometimes I will even go with him, it is a curiousity thing. It doesn't hurt anything, he is not allow to touch. My boyfriend chooses not to go, he says he doesn't see the point in it, I am all that he needs. If you feel that he does not consider you sexy and that is why he goes maybe you should try going with him or talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel.

My hubby and I have a pretty stable relationship, and have since we got together. I'm not trying to down you Robyn, because I was actually in this position with my current hubby before and was pretty upset. The bottom line is that he's coming home to you. You get the benefits of his stimulation. Men are visually stimulated, and in defense of the strip clubs, even though it may seem sleezy, 99% of these places have a "no touching" rule. have you ever thought of going with him? I've gone with my hubby several times, and we had a blast. We hooked up with one of his Marine Corp buddies one night who was injured and in a leg cast in a wheelchair and I bought the guy a lap dance, it was hilarious!! It can be a lot of fun if you're open minded about it. Besides Robyn, these strippers are not after your man, they are after his money to pay the bills. If you trust him there shouldn't be an issue. Does this club have an amateur night? Try to get him their and go participate! I bet the look on his face would be priceless as would the excitement, if ya get what I'm saying. But every woman is untitled to her own view, and if this is something your not comfortable with him doing you need to address it.Good luck to ya!

Hi Robyn, I go to strip clubs in Montreal, like once a week, even when I was in a relationship. We guys, sometimes look for variety. I mainly go now, not to watch the girls as they are still the same, but just for the atmosphere of the club and the nice stuff out there.

I wont get amused either. I dont think its nice. Guys may want to go to strip clubs for the "girls dancing with their clothes off" but WHATS the POINT, right? Or maybe im also a girl that why my opinion is negative. Or just plainly i dont like the thought of my guy drooling over a girls body whom he just paid for. Besides if the guy is a "nice Guy" he would not do things that he knows his Girlfriend dont like. Vice Versa we dont do things that they dont like. Sometimes in these cases i ask the guy, if thats ok with you. So we "girls" can do the same? (Even i cant imagine ddoing it) what would they react. Guys are more protective of their girls these days, let see what they would say about that if you ask.