I really want another baby!!

I understand I have 3 kids my-self also 2 boys 1 girl my boys are 7 and 2 and we have a 8 mo old girl.I had to have all mine c-section and had alot of problems after the last one the doctors talked me into getting my tubes tied,and the second it was done I cried and when I think about it i still cry I would love to have more,my husband says it was for the best,and maybe it was for my body but not for my heart,have them young enjoy them and if you really feel that strong about it,do it.

Well, you could probably wait a few years to have another and still be reasonably young. And by then you might be more settled financially with respect to your house. I'd wait until your husband also wants another child.

You dont thimk you have enough with cost living you need to be living in china, i guess you have easy diliveries good luck to you...

I think you and your husband should both agree to have another one before it happens. So I would just REALLY talk him into it. But if you guys do go ahead and have another one, when you go to work just but the baby in preschool. You said it would be 2 at that point and thats the perfect age! Whatever you guys choose, I wish you the best. When I'm your age I'll probably be in the same boat. I had my daughter at 18 (19 now) and I want 3 or 4 kids. So by 25.. I might have the 3 like you haha.

I've always wanted four kids, so I know where you are coming from. Unfortunately, for the sake of the family you do have I think that you and your husband need to agree on this one. The fact that you are so young does mean that there is still plenty of time. Maybe after you've been back to work for a little bit and have qualified for the refinance he'll be willing to think about it. Good luck, babies are such a big source of joy in a family.

First of all, you're very lucky to have 3! It would be smart to wait until you can talk him into it. You don't wanna ruin your marriage with that kind of disagreement. Good luck!

I would definetly would wait another couple of years then think about another baby. Just enjoy your children you have right now. You still have time for another baby.

Ideally it is best for the couple to agree on the number of children they'll have. You said you'll be working in 2 years to qualify for the refinance, maybe it will help for you to wait a while before you add another bundle of joy into your family.

you're only 25 girl! 4 or five years of waiting won't hurt. i'm 29 and i only have one four-year old daughter. i'm planning to have anothe one by next year, after i have finished paying for my first born's educational plan. maybe your husband wants you to spend more time with him and your three kids which you won't be able to do if you give birth to another baby. sure you're financially okay, but what's at stake here is the emotional aspect of your relationship with your husband and kids. if your husband is not happy about you having a baby too soon, then respect his opinion. after all, he is your husband. i'm pretty sure you wouldn't want him to "not so-like" that new baby someday which is a possibility if you insist on having it now, right?

Thats really a nice thought according to my religion(Islam) a women with more children is enjoys a higher place in the eyes of Allah.According to Al-Quran(31:14);"we have enjoined man to respect his parents;his mother bears him with fainting after fainting,while his weaning takes two years.Thank me as well as your parents;towards Me lies the goal ".According to Prophet Muhammad PBUH, 'Heaven lies under the feet of mother'.what else do you wish for...

Personally, I think it would be a good idea if your husband is in agreement with you before you get pregnant. Otherwise it can cause major problems in the relationship. Also, you already have a bit of a gap between your first two, so it would be ok to wait a little longer while you are trying to convince him. I agree that having kids while you are younger is the best option, but 25 isn´t even near getting old! :)

I know how you feel, I am 23, I have two kids, and my guy said he didnt want more, but I kept telling him we'd be depriving the world of more beautiful people, =) everytime he would look at the kids and say how cute they were. I really want 4 or 5 kids, and he knew that when we got together, Its unfair. I think it should be a mutual decision, but I also think that each side should hear out and understand, the others point of view, and think about it and then you can make a decision together. Good Luck, and I hope he comes around. My guy is starting to come around a bit.

You already have 3 Children and you want another too. Giving birth to another will have adverse effect on you health as well as your baby, remember.

Well,I have to agree with Gautemom here.Your husband should also be willing to have another child.If not,then I guess you should wait for a few more years.25/26 is not at all old for having a child.More and more women are having their kids late at 29,30,even more.But since you are going to have to refinance and so start work in two years time,think hard about this decision.In two years,your second one will be ready for school too.You will have to think about their expenses and stuff like that.If expense will still not be a problem for you then,I guess your only problem would be that you will not have as much time for your next one as you had for your first three.You may have to drop your little one in a day care or something like that if you cannot leave your job.If you are ok with that,then you can try to convince your husband.But I think it would be good if he saw your point of view rather than you trying to convince him into having another child.

You need to sit down with your husband and discuss more. You will need to get more understanding about your husband position. If you think you two were financially support another child then he'll need to agree first. But if it is not then you should understand him. To be honest three kids should be more than enough. I wanted three but my wife wanted two so we will look further as we go along. Well we don't have any kids yet but for me two or three kids will do for me.

I think it is better to have the child before you turn 30. After 30 normally there is some complications.

This is hard. If u do not convince him I think it is better not to. If u go along without him it can turn ugly - I have seen it happen. However keep working him if u really want to and maybe he will give in eventually. I am 26 and still has none - readinghowold u are and how many u have makes me feel like I really need to get started *lol*

are you sure that this would be the last baby that you would want? i mean to say that some people can actually get addicted to having children! my nan had 14 children, though that was not necissarily through choice, but i have seen parents in the news that chose to have 14-16 kids all because the mother just couldn't live without having a child under 2 in the house (that to me shows signs of addiction). perhaps your husband does not feel he could cope with more children, it does not mean that you can't afford it, it can be to do with thoughts and feelings too. perhaps he's not mentally prepared for a 4th?

I think the best way you do is to discuss this matter to your husband.It is good the two of you really wants and plan to have another baby.If he agrees with you then that must be good since you are both young and financially can support your family.God Bless!

u should thank god that u have only 3 babies ( 2 boys and 1 girl ) and your husband is right its enough . u have to take care of ur babies instead of working , but if the working is so important u can work but dont leave your babies alone