Would God approve ?? Won't it be a Sin ??

how can uyou even think of another woman when you already have a woman in your life!!i know it isnt a new thing to get into an extra marital affair!bt since i got the chance to respond to your this query i want to give you a piece of my mind!i have always felt n thought men really can't stick to one person and its soo very true!you woudnt have been asking this question if you thought this was the right thing to do!you want a physical relation from the other girl then after you have tried out with her you will be bored of her and go for a new adventure!??dont take this too personal i am talking about men in general!but since you are in the situation am talking to you!you say ur wife trusts u alot and still u want to cheat her??i know even your conscience is pricking you and that's why you even asking this question in the first place!you ask is this cheating as if you dont know??hmmmm if u didn't know pls let me infoem you this is cheating ,this is breach of her trust!marriage is not only about loving your life its also about resisting ur temptation!you say you dont think its cheating because u also love the another woman???loving that another woman when u already have a wonderful wife and uwho trusts you so much is cheating.you asking will god approve!??how can ask that question when you already know the answer!??how will uyou feel if your wife breaches your trust and is sleeping around with other men and say this wont be cheating you beause she likjes the person!how illogical is that?i know I am being tooo harsh!bt seriously my blood boils when i even hear of infedility!and by keeping this relation you think it can sustain for long?will that other girl ever marry you because as it is if your wife comes to know about the crap you doing behind her back she is mercilessly going to dump you and she should!so do you think the other girl is going to marry you??the thing that you having for that girl is not love that is called lust!a creepy and dirty thing that is never gonna cure you?u think if u get that other girl you will be satisfied?the answer is noo!because once you get that girl your heart will lust for some other girl!greatt goin dude!kep it up!cheat on your wife and pacify yourself that you aren't cheating on your wife!infact before you do such a thing and thinkin of dumping your wife i hope that your wife dumps you!i am really sorry if this was really harsh!but I am sorry!first place you shuldn't have submitted this question and since you have submitted please be prepared to get the best responses which is going to be really worst for you according to you!good luck dude!all da best!happy cheating on ur wife!

Yes, it is a sin. God does not approve. It is very wrong. Would you approve if your wife fell in love with another man and had a physical relationship?

Yes it is cheating, adultory is something that God considers a big sin and today it might look good to you but later on it will defintly bring in the penalty that this kind of sin will bring, you are happily married then count your blessing and ignore the other women, thats my sincere advice to you, take care

If you are married, even thinking about other female is a sin and against morals, it is also breach of trust. At the same time if you fail to satisfy a desiring woman, you are not a man.

I don't know about God as I don't really go in for that kind of thing. But how would your wife feel if she knew? I think if you truely love your wife you need to think what will happen if she finds out that you have made a physical relationship with another woman. I think you possibly need to think this through a little bit more! At worst you could lose your wife! I wouldn't advise this course of action. It usually ends in heartache for all parties involved. I wish you all the best.

I am not a priest. I'll try and clear up your doubts on the subject. Firstly you are married so I think you shouldn't try to break a happy marriage by having another affair. If you feel the other girl you love is worth more than your wife then maybe you should leave your first wife before getting into a full time relationship with the other girl. Before that if you do anything I think it would definitely constitute cheating. Let me tell you God does not approve of cheating. If God does not approve I think its obviously a sin. If you have a bible read Proverbs chapter 4,5,6. There are some things mentioned which the Lord does not like. You'll find the answers to your questions there.

oh my god,i can not understand you yet.but i want to know which woman do you love most,or who is the most important to you?have you ever thought of it ,or considered about them?and did you ask youself these kind of questions?what is your answer?do not tell us that you love the both,it is impossible,friend,you know?also i will give you some suggestion.one side,if you still love your wife ,your family.then you should cherish them,and keep on the happy life with her.another side,if you really like that female,i mean like not love(but you first see it for yourself),you can make her as your bosom friend,and do not let anything affect your family and your marriage.isn't this way better for you ?anyway ,you have to think of it by yourself.i hope that you can be happy but do any mistake so as to regret in future.be careful!

I can't understand how a man can possibly love two women at the same time. I am not saying its a sin. Sometimes, there are things that we seems to have no control of. You should weigh the pros and cons of what your action will caused. Will it be better to continue a physical relationship with the other woman. What if your wife catch you, will it worth the pain that you will give to your wife? If I'm the wife, I would prefer that my husband be straight with me. If he likes to have another woman, then I will graciously walk away from my husband without looking back. I consider it cheating.

If it is so, its very unfair to do this to the wife you really trust and beleive the love of the husband.Offcourse its a sin and god will surely give the punishment in some form.

samrat u r lying right ? it can't be true as far asi've known u.this is sin and if u r really upto something tell ur wife.

i am not agree with you.. if you are very happy with your marriage life how can you think of physical relationship with other woman. Don't take a big risk for just temporary happiness with your female friend.. it will be one sort of ditch with your wife.. its not sin in the eye of god, if your marriage life is not happy, and you are not happy with your marriage life..

Definately not a good thing that he would approve us, you are to honor and obey your loved one. What in your right mind would make you think that you could just go ahead and be with two women at the same time? Its wrong, if you love someone else you shouldn't be with your wife, and if you love both of them and can't choose you shouldn't hurt them by being with either of them.

You cant cheat your wife.This is a big sin and god will definetely not approve it.A sin is a sin if it is done knowingly or unknowingly.

You wanted our opions and mate you are gonna get them. A lot of people think about cheating while they are in relationships. But if you are actually thinking about acting out what is inside your head I suggest you leave the relationship or at least let your wive know. How would you feel if your wife went behind your back and did the same to you? I bet you wouldn't like it at all! I am sure you know what cheating is. Think about it, what do YOU classify as cheating? If you have feelings for someone else I suggest you talk to your wife Asap. The truth may hurt but she has a right to know. When you married her you went under the oath of god. Please show her the respect she deserves and at least tell her how you are feeling :) Sorry for the scroller, but I am very against cheating, more against lying and If you were my partner I would want to know!!! I hope you work things out.

Don't do it, it is a sin, God would not approve, send the woman packing and then stay away.

Even though this dscussion was posted only 22 hours ago i felt obliged to respond to this because it was absolutely necessary. Let's see, for some odd reason you find yourself in a pickle. You're married to a woman that love you and trust you 100%. Nothing wrong with that sort of woman in your life. And now you're falling in love with a woman who will most likely be in you life on a physical level ok, you got a problem! There's no way that your wife would agree with you and your fantasies. You're in lust with this other woman and you're lacking vital communication with the woman you're with now(your wife). This is the woman you made vows with, you stood at the altar and wait while she walked down the aisle ever so gingerly, while you waited for her to say I do. Are you nuts? Did you fall far from your bed? Did you slam yourself onto the cold floor? It's not a question whether god approves or not. It's a question whether you truly love your wife and how honest you have been with her. Are you now, just having doubts? To me this sounds like the most delayed reaction I've ever heard after someone like you who decides to get married. If you really think about it,... you do know how to think don't you? You know what don't think about it, do what the commercial says,.. "just do it" and then wait until your wife finds out through someone else.. like you neighbours.. and see what she thinks of you later! Would it be a sin, if your loving wife left you for someone else? Thank you for your discussion, I had a lot of fun responding!!

I definitely think that this would be considered cheating. It doesn't matter whether or not you love the other woman, the fact is that you made marriage vows to your wife and you promised her before God that you would stay true to her. Any time you are having a physical relationship with someone outside of your marriage, it is adultery, which God has specifically told us not to do. I would definitely say that this is a sin, because it's going directly against God's ten commandments. Part of the whole point of being married is that you are committing yourself only to that person for the rest of your life. Otherwise, you might as well just stay single and date different people for your entire life if you can't commit yourself to one person. Can you imagine how broken hearted your wife would be if you betrayed her that way? Do you think it would be ok for your wife to carry on a relationship with another man??

Friend, if you are having a happy married life, why are you treading into other pastures. I agree, that it is natural to like any lady, after marriage, also. But in that case, a physical relationship is not a must! You will just ruin a life of another good person. And believe me, it is a lot of pain, to break a relationship. So think once more.

hmmmmmmmm I'm not Christian so I don't understand or worry about that sin concept. I'm pretty sure if you are Christian, you just have to confess, say some prayers and pay money, then they forgive you. Maybe I'm wrong on that point though. Anyway, why not get it while we are alive? Life is short. Ifa female I love was wanting some and wanted another female, I would say just bring her too, for safety at least.

I would already be a sin because that's already cheating.. You're already committed to your wife and now you want to have physical connection with her, if you're married happily to your wife then I don't see any reason for you to do that to her or to be attracted or to love another woman.. It's plain logic, if you love someone then she would only be the one in your life you would lose interest with other women around you.. I'm not really happy with the idea that you would cheat on her if she really trust you that much because you would be then taking advantage of it plus would you ruin your happy married life just for this other woman whom you so called love? I also don't think it would be fair for your wife when you say you also love this other woman, she love you wholeheartedly without letting anyone share your spot in her heart.. Think about it really well because I really don't think this is a good idea unless you don't love your wife anymore but just in denial because you're afraid if things would not turn out well for the other woman then you don't have anyone to go to after..