how does it feel when you found the one?
By ronreyes
@ronreyes (4724)
Philippines
March 31, 2007 5:24am CST
Haha! I'm just curious since I haven't experienced having a girlfriend yet. I really have no idea what's this thing called love is. Haha! Poor me! So how does it feel? and please give me some advice when approaching a girl. I do like someone right now but I'm afraid she won't like me coz my personality is kinda weird. I really need some motivation. LOL!
- Ron Reyes
www.ronreyes.co.nr
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44 responses
@harwoodkp (285)
• United States
31 Mar 07
That is a tough one. I will tell you what worked for me. I decided not to date until I was ready to get married, and I would not date anyone that I would not marry. I have ended up with a wonderful woman.
If you are having a hard time asking her. Try a group type date. Ask some of your friends to help you out and spend sime time with her. hint. They could build you up in front of her, and this might help you out on going on a private date. Good luck
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@chengbeb (285)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
It feels heavenly as if your problems had disappeared and all you feel is serenity. That of course is based on my personal experience. =) never be afraid if a girl wouldnt like your personality just be yourself and don't pretend that you're someone you're not. It is much appreciated if you be yourself. I'm pretty sure that you have something that would be interesting to a girl. Just be kind, be a gentlemen, and be sweet. I'm pretty sure you'll find the right girl for you and you'll feel heavenly. =P
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@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
8 May 07
It feels right and comfortable. At least that's the best way I can describe it. Don't worry about the weird personality. Just be yourself or you will attract the wrong person and you won't be able to relax. Besides, weird personalities aren't bad. It means you're probably not boring.
As far as approaching a girl, just go up to her and start talking. Find a topic that you might have in common. Just act confident but sincere.
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@abednego7 (1060)
• Philippines
8 May 07
Now I think you two should talk in private since you are in the same situation. Maybe by some point you will realize why you still have no boyfriend and why he still don't have a girlfriend. Who know you belong to each other. just kidding. Peace.
@ronreyes (4724)
• Philippines
9 May 07
Haha maybe you're right abednego7... But no... According to her profile, she's from India. I'm here in the Philippines so basically, it will be very difficult for us to get along. Especially that I'm a weirdo! I don't think she will understand my personality. Haha!
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@mansibansal3 (181)
• India
31 Mar 07
being in love is totally awesummm!!!! of course the problem comes if that other person doesn't love you back... as in my case... the guy i'm in love with is in love with someone else... :( but it's still awesum being in love!!! ;)
@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
7 May 07
Don't live your life with regrets. If you have feeling for her and she shuts you down at least she now knows how you feel and she might like you but she might not and if she do'nt there are lots of girls out there that may think you are actully a pretty good person. You won't know until you give it a try though.
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@mysiraylon (1102)
• United States
10 May 07
Tell her bestfriend that you like her and call her as soon as you get her numbers. Keep the ball in your court whenever you have it there. Buy something not expensive for her like calling a pizza delivery and have one deliver right away to her house... Be simple and be yourself, cause girls hate hypocrites.
@lovelydame3000 (1577)
• India
11 May 07
Hi ronreyes! I would suggest you not to force things. Love just happens when you least expect it. It did happen to me!! I felt as if i was on top of the world. If you are destined to be loved you would get it.. So do not think too much and worry about it.
@vikimishra (628)
• New Zealand
10 May 07
falling in love is wonderfull experience ..sooner or later you will also experience this ..You go out of this world suddenly you feel lighter and you see only good things and bad thigs are automatically ignored ..
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@gasmas100 (585)
• India
10 May 07
just be urself, seriously........dont try to act like somethin u arent.b urself.
all the best mate!!!
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@nevandaar (96)
• Philippines
10 May 07
hey, girls like guys whos a little wierd. take me for example, im kinda wierd, by ex GF always tells me that im sooooo much on the imagination thing that she admires the wierdness of being with someone strange. and wierd guys are the secret romantic types, the poets and the knights in shining armor...so go for it, the only barrier you have to break is your self, making th first move...you dont have to say youlike her on the first meeting, show her you like her. if you play online games, make a chracter with her name, and make that character very beautiful or very strong depends on your strategy, then show her, tell her that its your favorite characte and you really like somebody having the same name...man am i teaching you good stuff...hahaha. anyways, the most important thing is to make her feel youre honest with your feelings and your intensions are pure. and trust man, you must build trust, make her trust you, and never break the trust she has given you...it takes so much effort to build trust but it can be broken by the slightesttouch of doubt, so be honest and always remember, women are very special, they should be treated with respect and honesty.
@nielcdg (709)
• Philippines
11 May 07
When I first spent a nice evening with the one I love I have never felt so at ease with someone before. The feeling that you know her for a long time yet you have only been acquaintances for a day or so. Or like every moment is heightened, every move she makes, how she laughs. Its like your alive for the very first time and spending it with the one you were meant to be.
Any ways that's my experience, Im a hopeless romantic about these things, even my currentlt girl friend doesnt think that much of our first date. But hey its not the date or the person that counts, its the moment you shared.
@Lylascomments (161)
• United States
14 May 07
Very nice, you don't hear that from men much.
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@Lylascomments (161)
• United States
14 May 07
I have finally found "the one". It has taken awhile but I know he is the one because I want no other, no one else will do. I love him unconditionally, faults, bad habits and all. When you can honestly say for richer or poorer in sickness and health.... As for advice, did you ever watch the movie "Hitch"? Find common interests, goals, foods, hobbies, etc. and go from there.
@cassidy22 (2974)
• United States
8 Jun 07
I really don't know how to describe it. I describe my husband as being everything I never knew I wanted. You don't really know what you are looking for until you find it. There is a sense of peace and calm. it's not all heart fluttery like movies make it seem. It really is very calm, because it's like all the pieces finally fit together. It makes the past heartaches worth it.
@chloe9013 (532)
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10 May 07
Love is amaizing! Me and my partner havn't been officially together long but the moment we spoke to each other we knew something was there, just at the time we did realise what as we met through business discussions. When i am with him i feel so happy just looking at him and his hugs feel like nothing else. I get tingles just thinking about being with him and it really feels like we are two pieces that fit together as he fixes all my flaws/all the things i felt i couldn't do and vise versa. We are both stronger people for being together.
I hope you get to feel it soon. Its increadable!
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@someincome (785)
• India
2 Jun 07
Love, whether the person has requited, or not, feels like a warm feeling. Its like a cozy blanket in winter and a dip in the swimming pool in scorching summer.
Just that when you have it, it feels good, when you don't have it, you wonder what its like and when you know you're not going to have it it feels terrible.
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@fazelath (1174)
• India
10 May 07
Being in love is a great feeling,i am a female,and i thing u shouldnt think of your weird personality,u must have heard love is blind,if she loves u,she would not see your personality,love is from heart to heart,u should propose to her with full confidence,u should be nervous
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@bhabyjheng (19)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
you know what it feels like crazy.. hahaha coz sumtimes when if i get mad at him..as in super.. he just sit beside me..and show me some sweetness and affection.. and after a few minutes wer laughing together.. hehehe is'nt it crazy?!