5 questions should be clear before marriage!! reasons for you to think about
By freshrainer
@freshrainer (284)
China
April 2, 2007 9:23pm CST
several days, my psychology doctor give me the following advice on marriage. Five questions should be clear before marriage. Please think about the reasons.
1. Do we have the same goal of life?
2. Do you feel safe when sharing your thought with the one?
3. Is the one a speaical or honorable one? you just can test this by ask how he or she use the time?
4. How does the one treat to others?
5. Do you want to change the one after marriage?
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6 responses
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
3 Apr 07
Are you thinking about getting married? if so that is nice. wish you the best of luck!
@angela2006 (1845)
• China
3 Apr 07
my boyfriend and I ,we usually talk about our marriage and our future.together with him, I feel so safe.there is nothing I am afraid of,we all cherish the love.he is a kind of man with warm heart,his friends think highly of him,and he is a handsome boy!
we love each other,everyday my life is filled with laugh and happiness together with him.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
3 Apr 07
they are very good questions, and I think the biggest alarming one is the one do you want to change your partner after marriage,
if you think that way it already says you are not right for each other, you are already too different.
@ag_abscruzmd (2283)
• United States
3 Apr 07
It would also be wise to check into the psychiatric history of the family of the future or prospective husband/wife. Of course this question wouldn't be asked directly but had to be done discreetly. You're right, it's important to see how this individual treats other people. Sometimes the real deal really comes out after the marriage, sad to say. Thanks for the information and happy myLotting!
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
3 Apr 07
It seems you are very careful in getting married.I think you are right,we should consider some questions before marriage.There are too many people who don't take marriage seriously.And this has led to many tragedies and divorces.
Yes,if we want our marriage to be a lasting one,we should make sure we get the answers of those five questions.
@sshazie (253)
• Singapore
3 Apr 07
seriously i think i had only tot abt 2 questions out of 5! hmm...i guess i should have consulted a shrink before marriage hehe. but i think sometimes think u love someone so much that u can overlook a particular negative in him/her. But i was wondering wats a good answer or explanation to the questions that u stated.
