Doesn't it aggrivate you when you see you have a private message and

Hi..I didnt have you in mind when I was speaking of spam..so please don't take this thread personally..I havent answered all my good messages because I am still weeding through the bad ones that have taken over my inbox..As I delete the unwanted messages .I am sure I will find your good one:)+

Oh, don't worry. I didn't take it personally, and you are more than welcome to take all the time you would like on my message. I was just concerned, after reading this, that you might mistake my message as spam, since it was sent shortly after you accepted me as a friend. I didn't think you had me specifically in mind. No worries. :)

I hope I didnt spam you Ken..;) I know I did write you a message..but now forgot since you didnt answer..bet I spammed you ???:)LOL ..just kidding.. I am not joining any more sites..I have too much on my plate already;)+

It would be nice to know ahead of time who the known spammers are..maybe mylot would put out a nice list of spammers..so we know that is their intent?+

I didnt know you can delete comments on your profile...Gee, thanks a lot ..you really helped me out..I think I like to clear up some comments on my profile;)+

I hear ya..and I actually got a message from someone asking me to join dormcheck..Grrrrrrrrrr.. You know what I did with that one!lol+

Glad your laughing ..perhaps 2 weeks ago..I wouldn't be laughing..I really pity the whole situation there.. I think people need to do a background check on the felow who runs it;)+

aww lol thats too funny

Right! You can not do both with a split of second interval. It is not friendship. (^^,)

Usually if I share an opp..I try to do it in an unselfish way;) But you know how human nature is; Someone comes in and sees mylot has over 80,000 members and then starts emailing each one a private message and after emailing them deletes them as a friend..Isnt that awful..scoundrels I say, scoundrels!!+

Maybe if you change your main number listed to a land line phone telemarketers wont call you..:)

I think that's the best way to send spam ..that is..first asking if the intended recipient really wants it;)+

That is a super idea Rosa..not invites till they accepting have 100 posts..That should really handle some of my problems..I think..LOL..thanks a million;)+

Between long term friends..like been friends at least a month..Not just like ..become my friend..and then 5 minutes later have pile of spam..yuck!!

Hmm.. Will think about that..Sounds pretty reasonable your advice;)+

That is a very nice way to put..it;) Glad you commented. I think others have a bad habit of doing just that..trying to shover their links down your throat...Yuck!:)+

I agree..Once you send out your email to a spamster..not only do they spam you..but they give you email to other spammmers and soon you can't help but close your email and open another one;)

Thanks. Anyway, on a serious note, keep in mind that when you go on a hunt-and-report-violations rampage, it does hurt your own mylot earnings too, because you're not typing out a discussion or typing out a response while hunting. However, at times, the lost earnings is worth the fun & natural high from that adrenaline rush.

Your answer has to be the funniest yet!!:) So I give you the best response..It's funny and really a good answer to spam:) Thanks for your very good response!

Yes..means they really didnt want to be your friend..they just want you to be their referral in some money maker they are wasting time on;)+

Well..always ask permission.. I agree.. :)+

But what about people who ask to be your friend and the only time you see them is pming you about some opportunity..I wouldn't call them true friends..I know I have a tight schedule this past week..but I try to get to friends at least once a week..what about you?

Easy on that one. Anyone who asks to be a friend, doesn't respond to any discussion I have started at all but instead spams me gets a pm saying "thanks I am not interested". If a second one comes, then they are an ex-friend, that is they are deleted. I am not interested in having friends who are not friends at all, but instead are after making a quick buck out of me. I am sure that there are a lot of people who join mylot only to promote their own referrals. They are not interested in me, or anyone else for that matter, let alone the discussions that are started. Check out some of the blogs sometime, where people have huge blogs with all sorts of things but only a small rating here on mylot. Yes, I do get to my friends discussions whenever I can. When I come here to mylot, I will generally concentrate on responding to at least 2 of my friends discussions, and sometimes get to more than that. It all depends on the time limit I have.

I think when you are not worrying about the money aspect..we do make more money..I like the friend focus..I have so many here and this IS a very nice place to chat;)+

I never thought of spamming them back..I just simply get aggrivated..not usually capable of returning fire:)+