I am very hurt and disappointed.

Maybe for now you have to let it go. There's no sense staying in a relationship that is no longer working. Communication is really an important ingredient in a relationship. Best thing that you do give him the space he wants, who knows you guys will still end up together. But of course expect the worst also for you not to get hurt badly.

First I want to say how rude that was of him to tell you that after what you just went through. Hugs to you. But its time now for some serious soul searching. Do you really love him or are you just afraid to be alone? I don't mean anything bad by that quesion, I've just been there and the thought of being alone kept me in a bad relationship. But if you do really love him, then you have to fight to keep it. Would he consider counceling? Most men won't. Finacial troubles are a problem for many couples but love should be stronger than any problem that comes up. I feel so bad for you right now but be strong and you will get through this.

That is so sad. I am sorry about the loss of your grandfather, and your situation with you boyfriend. At a time like this, there really isn't much anyone can say to remove your pain. I will pray for you though, and hope things get better for you.

Sorry to hear of your lose. If i where you i would sit with him when he gets back and see for sure that the relationship cannot be fixed. If not then you should move on. I know this can be hard but there is someone out there for you. Get a great job and feel good about yourself. he will realise that he has lost something wonderful.

I feel sorry that you lost your granddad and being left by the man you've been with for almost two years now. I know it's really hard to cope with such hard blows so I pray that you can recover quickly from both losses. Your boyfriend was an insensitive sod, though, so I guess you're better off without him. I think that to help you get through this you need to look at the bright side of things. At least you found out his true colors now rather than later when you have invested more time and emotions on him or worst when you're already married. Guys like him can't be relied on when the going gets tough so thank your lucky stars you found out his real character before its too late. I suggest you waste no more tears and emotions on him, after all you've wasted two years of your life on him already. You seem to be a wonderful woman so I think you'd still find somebody better than him and somebody who truly deserves you and your love. Good luck and God bless on your future relationships!

Can't say that he has very good timing, but at the same time we all need to attempt to look rationally on a situation like this, which is always difficult with a loved one. If he waited so long to tell you this, he'd probably been holding it back as long as he could, in any case it didn't sound like a very positive relationship and its for the best then if you 're not with him anymore. It's good to look at the bright side of these things.

Just get on with your own life and set your priorities right. No use crying over spilled milk. Think of it as a blessing in disguise because now you can concentrate on first, finding a job, and second, he showed his true color early enough. Good luck, and enjoy life!

oh! i'm sorry for whatever is happenning to you. i think most of the people will think your boyfriend to be mean, rude and not in love. these things seem obvious but what i think is that living life and maintaining a relationship is not a peice of cake. it reqires loads of hard work and taking mental strains too. i can see that since you both are unemployed currently and there must be some financial insecurity involved.this has defintely led to frustration which is acting as a relationship-ending factor. you, not keeping your cool under such circumstances is only acting as a catalyst. its not that there's no love but love temporarily has been overcast by your insecurities. i'll suggest you to keep you cool anyhow if you want to save this or any other relationship in future. try hard to get your job. let your boyfriend know that he is really and badly needed by you. show your true love and support in your eyes.don't fake. wish you all the best and a happy life ahead!

ohhh!i'm sorry to hear that! But HELLO? What kind of BF is he? i mean, i don't want to judge. I don't know him anyway. i think i got his point why he told that break up after your father's burial. For you to focused your mind to your father and not the break up. Now is the time to think about the break up. Well he still cares about you because he still waited for you to come back after the burial. Right? But i know your hurt now and disappointed. But you got to face it and settle things with him in the right time when both of you are in your peace of mind. Right? I hope things will get better to both of you. It's just a trial i suppose and you'll get away with it for sure. Take care.

I am so sorry that all these bad things have been happening to you at once. He probably waited until now to tell you because he didn't want to add to the stress that you were already feeling about your grandpa. Guys aren't too great about timing so he doesn't even realize that telling you right after really isn't any better. Maybe it's time for you to make a fresh start, if you are unemployed and now single, there is nothing stopping you from pursuing something new in life. I wish you all the luck and hope things start going in the right direction for you soon.

It seems that he is not really very sensitive to your feelings and most likely you can do much better for yourself. Consider yourself fortunate that you are not stuck with someone like this any longer. I think you are quite able to do much better for yourself and should just move on and not dwell on someone who does not even consider your feelings.

Honey,Wish I could give you a hug.I think you are better off without this insensitive rat...How could anyone kick you like that when you are down from the loss of a loved one...That is just not right...He should have been honest when he started feeling this way and maybe you could have worked it out...

First let me say that I am sorry that you lost your grandpa. As for your boyfriend - How insensitive of him to bring up ending your relationship at this time. At least if he has been gone all day then the two of you haven't been arguing. I think you need to sit quietly and think things over, ask yourself do you really want to try and keep this relationship going. Think on this - "There a plenty more fish in the sea - and believe it or not some of them are goldfish." I hope you make a wise decision and things work out for the best. Maybe a new job for you will get you back on track. Good luck.

Everything happens to the best of us. Maybe GOD has something in store for you in the future. I know it hurts a lot to lose a family member and later on your relationship with your love one. We have a saying that "It is better to have love and lost than not to have loved at all" meaning it will make you stronger next time and be able to cope up with the trails that might come your way. We only live once, so live your life to the fullest. You GO girl!!

It is easy... tell him EXACTLY how you feel and let him decide. If he chooses to stay then yay but if he leaves he is not the one for you anyway.

awwwwww my friend, im sorry my response is late but i want you to know you are in my thoughts. Males can be so thoughtless and cruel and i really feel for you, i just hope things sort them selves out for you very soon huggs to you blessed be

Talk about bad timing, huh. Maybe he didn't want you to feel bad before going to the trip and he felt it's best to drop the bomb after. Anyways, it's good that he was able to tell you now rather that keeping silent and pretending everything is okay with the both of you. It's really painful, especially if you still love him. The best thing to do is to accept it and move on. It's easier said than done but it's the only way to go. You can't keep on holding onto someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore. I say this often and I believe this, that God will send us the one meant for us at the right time and place. You have to go through this to get where you need to be, and that is your ever after. Do productive things and keep yourself busy. If you guys are really meant for each other, you'll end up together no matter what. Keep the faith and goodluck! :)

i feel sorry for your grandpa. may god bless him in heaven. and i also feel sorry for break up with your bf. may go d give you courage to get past this situation.

Hello friend, i just want to say you that in love it doesnt matter what problems you have in your life but the love can never be finished! You love him still even you have been covered by problems. This shows that your love was true love for him which is not ended till now. But i think he does not love you truely. I am not diappointing you or making you sad but i am just telling you the fact about him. Love never ends! I can not give you any suggestion but it might be the case with you what i have said.

if ur bf does not want to continue relationship call it off,pl remember too much attachment is always bad.it leads to heavy dependence on ur partner and knowing this he may exploit u.he should know that u r an indepent person and relationship can continue only on the basis of mutual faith.if he is not interested in u just call it a day and forget him and start life afresh.