Is it strange of me to say "Happy Easter" to those who celebrate it?
By Leca
@lecanis (16647)
Murfreesboro, Tennessee
April 6, 2007 8:55pm CST
Today at work everyone was saying "Happy Easter" all day, since for many (but not me) it's the last day of the workweek, and they wouldn't see each other until Easter was over. Well, I said it too, becuase I really do want people to enjoy their holiday.
Most of my coworkers thought it was cool that I did so, but my boss looked at me awfully funny and laughed when I said "Happy Easter" to him. Do you think it's strange that I wish people a "Happy Easter" when I don't celebrate it myself? I'm not trying to mock anyone, I just want to let people know that I care. =P
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@CinnamorollTK (263)
• United States
7 Apr 07
Its OK to say Happy Easter. I'm guessing people are giving you strange looks because not eveyone says Happy Easter. Its not as common as say Merry Christmas Or Happy Hannukah. If you feel that you have the need to tell everyone Happy Easter, then do so. You might start a trend in your job and they may say it back to you next year. I don't understand why your boss would rudely laugh at you since you are trying to show that you're kind and that you care. Just keep wishing everyone a Happy Easter until there's no one left. Maybe you can wish a happy easter to the people on the street, too.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
7 Apr 07
Actually, everyone had been saying Happy Easter all day at my work, customers and employees. So that's definitely not the reason. In fact, I had been the only one who wasn't saying it to every single customer, because I prefer not to assume what people believe in or celebrate. I only said it back to people who said "Happy Easter" to me. In the case of my coworkers and such, I know who celebrates Easter and who doesn't, hence my saying it to some people.
I don't think he was trying to be rude to be honest, I think he just didn't know how to take it. He's usually an awesome person, and I just can't believe that he meant to be rude to me.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
8 Apr 07
I just don't feel the need to say such things unless I know someone celebrates a holiday. Personally I don't take offense when someone wishes me well on some holiday I don't celebrate, but I know people who do. And it's just easier not to do it, and just say "Have a nice weekend" or whatever.
"I don't care what religion anyone is, if you are a good person, so what!!" I agree on this one! I have a lot of friends who are different religions than me, and it doesn't make any difference in how I view them. =)
@londongirl (207)
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8 Apr 07
Its sad you were afraid to say Happy Easter to some people just in case they didn't celebrate it, so what! I live in an area with all different types of religions, and whatever is being celebrated I wish them well and they wish me, does it offend non Christians then, is that why you don't say Happy Easter to all your customers, I think its sad that people take offence, my husband is Chinese and a Buddhist, we still celebrate Easter, I'm sorry but I think to much goes into religion nowadays, I don't care what religion anyone is, if you are a good person, so what!!
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@samson1967 (7414)
• India
7 Apr 07
It is not strange if you wish others when they celebrate their festivals. Will You find it strange when other community person wishes you when you celebrate your Feast?. In case of Easter make sure that you wish only Roman Catholics. Protestants and some others will not beleive in the resurruction of Christ(Easter).
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
7 Apr 07
Thanks for your response! And no, I wouldn't think it strange, and in fact I would feel very special and cared about if someone wishes me well on my holidays. =)
I'm a little confused by part of your post. I don't know any Christians, Catholic or Protestant, that don't celebrate Easter. Are there some specific Protestest denominations that don't, that you know of?
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
17 Apr 07
I think it is being polite and showing that you care. I have asked my Muslim friends how their Ramadan is going and I wished my Jewish friends a Happy Passover. It shows that you care. anyone who finds that funny is a non feeling idiot.Where is it written that you have to celebrate a holiday to wish a happy holiday to the ones that celebrate it?
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@complexvanilla (653)
• India
12 Apr 07
I'm surprised that your boss responded the way he did. I wish people on the occasion of festivals that they celebrate, even when I don't and they in fact feel good that I remembered. I have never had anybody reacting the way your boss reacted. Maybe he is just a wierdo. My friends who belong to different religions make it a point to wish me when I'm celebrating a festival. Not just that, but we also visit each other and take part in each other's festivals. It just makes us feel that much closer to each other, you know.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
17 Apr 07
I think he is a weirdo. =p
Nah, really, he's a nice guy, but sometimes I think he just gets confused. He had never heard of my religion before meeting me, and he's even gone to the effort of doing research on it just because of me! I think it just confused him because he knew it wasn't a holiday I celebrated, and it just didn't occur to him that I would still know about the holiday and mention it.
My friends and I visit each other and take part in each other's festivals too. It's great fun to learn about other people, and it does make us closer too. =)
@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
7 Apr 07
Honestly I'm not really sure how to answer this and I didn't know that you didn't celebrate Easter. Sorry if me sending you the Easter greeting on your profile was wrong of me or bothered you in any way. I personally don't think it was strange of you to say Happy Easter, you were basically just saying enjoy your holiday and see you back at work in a few days. That is how I would have taken it anyhow and those are my thoughts!
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
7 Apr 07
Oh, no no you sending me Easter greeting was great! I felt so special! I don't mind that it said Easter on it, as obviously you didn't know I don't celebrate it, and it's the thought that counts anyway! Don't worry about it one bit: I think you're a sweetie. =)
Thanks for your response!
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@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
8 Apr 07
Awwwww thanks hun, now I feel special =) I love the piggy that you sent me too! He will stay there forever! Thanks again, it brightened my day, & made me smile!
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@LordGregoroftheSith (667)
• United States
8 Apr 07
I celebrate it, and I don't see how it would be a problem. It is just showing respect for someone elses beliefs is how I see it. If I was to wish you a Happy "whatever" because you celebrated it. I would be doing it out of respect for you as a person not, because I am "making fun".
Just forget those people. They don't know anything. That is why they laugh... seriously.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 Apr 07
I do not see anything weird with it. I think it is a nice and very respectful way of saying that even if u donĀ“t celibrate it, you respect and care for the people that do =)
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@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
7 Apr 07
As you know lecanis, I am a Christian but I've never said "Happy Easter" to anyone. Maybe it isn't a very Aussie thing to do, but I haven't heard the expression very much at all. If I was wishing someone a happy easter, I would probably wish them a happy holiday.
As a Christian, I would not be at all offended if you wished me a happy easter, even though I know you don't celebrate it yourself. I would not take it as a mockery or anything, because I know you well enough to know you wouldn't do that. You would do it as a genuine wish for a happy time, and as a mark of respect for what I believe.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
7 Apr 07
Hmm... maybe it's an American thing to run around saying "Happy Easter". I'm not sure. I know I heard a lot of people say it yesterday at work, between my coworkers and the customers. That's interesting how you can notice such small things are different between cultures!
Thanks for your vote of confidence by the way! I'm very happy that you feel that way. Oh, and, Happy Easter! =)
@sensesfail (2251)
• India
7 Apr 07
No not at all!I celebrate Easter and i do wish people around me and they wish me too.I don't find it strange.Its as normal as that.I wonder why your boss reacted that way.Does he not celebrate Easter too just like you?If yes, that maybe the reason why he reacted that way.
Or maybe he knows that you're not this person who celebrates festivals like these and that could be one of the reasons why he reacted that way.But anyway don't stop wishing people, be who you are.If not for him others might definitely appreciate your gesture.
Happy Easter. *oops realizes that you dont celebrate easter*
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
7 Apr 07
Nope, he does believe in Easter. He was talking about his Easter plans earlier that same day. So I think he was just taken aback because he knows I don't celebrate it, and he didn't expect me to say anything about it because of that.
*giggles* I really don't mind if people wish me Happy Easter, or indeed wish me well on any other holiday I don't celebrate. I know they mean well, and take the sentiment in exactly the way it is meant. =)
@xParanoiax (6987)
• United States
7 Apr 07
Nah, it's nice. I'll wish different people their different holidays too -- even if I don't celebrate them.
I mean I don't celebrate Easter either, btu I'm going to be cooking and stuff with and for my family-- since they DO celebrate it Hopefully we'll all have fun this year.
It's just a nice thing to do. ^_^
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
7 Apr 07
Well, I hope you have fun with your family! =)
I also sometimes participate in celebrations for holidays I don't so much celebrate. Since my husband is Christian and I am Pagan, we pretty much just celebrate everything sometimes. I'm sure when my son is older he'll want to do "Easter stuff" just like all the other kids, so it'll be interesting to see what compromise we come to there.
@Denmarkguy (1845)
• United States
8 Apr 07
I got really used to such things when I had a retail store that basically specialized in "gifty" items. The place was always packed around seasonal holidays, and even though I don't do "the Christian thing," I got pretty comfortable with wishing people "happy Easter," and "Merry Christmas," and all that. I concluded that just because *I* don't celebrate some holiday doesn't mean that I can't legitimately wish a believer a happy-whatever... I realized it was a bit like arguing that just because I'm not interested in marriage doesn't mean that I can't wish well for someone ELSE who's getting married. After all I DO want them to have a happy Easter. Or a happy Hannukah.
@vokey9472 (1486)
• United States
7 Apr 07
I think that it's nice to remember the holiday to people even if you don't celebrate it yourself. I don't celebrate Passover, Purim, Yom Kippur or Hannukah, but I always tell my jewish friends to have a nice one or give them the appropriate jewish greeting for the holiday. It's just a nice way of letting people know that you acknowledge and respect their holidays.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
7 Apr 07
Thanks for your response!
I think it's great that you give people the appropriate greetings for their holidays as well! I know it always makes me feel special when people remember my holidays. In fact, today when schedule was being done, my coworker came to tell me my Winter Solstice time off had been approved, and did it in just those words. I felt so loved!
@juliaandrea_a (349)
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
I don't think it's not strange because many people do it. They are greeting other people Merry Christmas when they don't celebrate it. It's just a good gesture you know.
@filmbuff (2909)
• United States
7 Apr 07
There is absolutely nothing wrong with your wishing someone a "happy easter" even though you don't celebrate. It is called good maners and it would be rude NOT to acknowlege it as a significant holiday for the vast populace. If someone is Jewish you wish them a "happy chaunaka" if they are a christian a "Merry Christmas." It is the polite thing to do.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
7 Apr 07
no, it is not strange at all... it just means to me that you are a tolerant and considerate person to wish people from other religion Happy Easter even though you didn't celebrate it yourself... i also wish people from other religion when they celebrate some special day from their religion even though i didn't celebrate it myself... it just shows that we are respecting them as well...
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@coolcatzz (1587)
• Canada
8 Apr 07
Nope I don't think it's strange at all.
I hope you and your family have a Happy Easter too.
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@sigma77 (5383)
• United States
7 Apr 07
I don't think it matters. All you were doing is wishing for someone to have a happy holiday. It is the same if you say happy birthday to someone, even though the day might not be your birthday too. I don't see any problem with wishing someone a happy "whatever" even if you aren't celebrating it yourself.
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@eshuniki (132)
• India
7 Apr 07
Its not at all strange to wish someone even if u dont celebrate that festival.Its only a way of expressing ourself,cause it is meaningful for that person so y not give them our best wishes too.If anyone thinks it to be strange that u wished others,let them be,u know that u hav done a good thing.
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@skoolstyle (6)
• India
7 Apr 07
hii happy easter i m not a christian nor i celebrate easter infact i dono wat it is even celebrated for and how do the celebrate it i play online games so i meet a lot of ppl from other contris and i wish then and those ppl like it so much that they serch wat festivals i celebrate and they wish me i fell very nice for that ppl even wish me happy easter even if they kno i m not a chritian and i wish them my festivals even if they dont kno them infact i think its a good way 2 kno wach other
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