household chores

even though you are a full time housewife, you needn't feel guilty to ask your hubby to help you because chores are too tiring for a woman. you'd better ask him to help you so that he can gets to know what hard work you are doing. but you should choose the right time and the right way to ask for his help. you can ask him to help you when he is not so tired or when he is in a happy mood. show your appreciation when he gives you a hand.

don't feel guilty, i'm a stay at home mom and between juggleing my 5 month old snd all the house chores is way to much, just think about it, my husband gets to go to work and get out of the house,away from the crying and then a 1/2 hour break during the day.its easier to wait on customers or do paperwork than feel the stress of constantly taking care of someone and the house. where is are alone time??????????exactly there is none

Do I feel guilty? Heck NO! I work 40+ hours a week the same that he does. I still have to go outside and do the gardening. Why shouldn't he help with the laundry, cooking, dishes, ect... The way I look at it is that there is no such thing as womans work or mans work, it is all unisex work now. If both husband & wife are working bringing home a paycheck to support the joint marital debt then absolutely ALL chores should be done by both. Don't you dare feel guilty!

I don't ask mine to help me. I like doing things my way. He does his part by cooking. I can cook, but not the way he can as he's a chef. I do the dishes, because I have a system of loading the dishwasher. If he did it, he would just shove everything in there and then force the door shut. Forget about doing laundry, he somehow managed to bleach one shirt out of a full load without using bleach. I been doing this for 11 years with two kids, and moving seven times, with having to do most of it five times. My husband works 40 hours a week, and on his days off. He will either mow the yard if it needs it, then cook dinner, and play with the girls. He does tell me a lot that it's time for our oldest to start helping out by doing chores, but it's like getting him to do it. I rather just do it myself, at least I know it's getting done right. I used to be a clean freak, where the house smelt of bleach and pine sol all the time. I don't go that over board anymore, since my fibromyalgia kicks in after I over do it. I give anything to go through my house and get rid of some stuff and clean from top to bottom like I used to.

NO! I am a new housewife and my job is hard! I have to clean, cook, take care of the kids, then do it all again. My husband works 8 hours a day. I start working at 7 am and I am still going at 11pm trying to get up the mess that they have already made. Maybe I get more breaks than him, but I work much longer. At 11pm when I start to head to bed, here he comes! Then my children get up at least 2 times in the night. I am on call 24 hours a day and I DO EVERYTHING! even mow the lawn. So whenever I ask my husband to help, he should try to make an attempt.

Whaaaaaat?! How DARE I ask him to do anything?! Last time I asked him to put out the garbage, guess who did it? ME! I cannot rely on his memory to do anything. He's too busy with the computer and playing guitar. Give me a break! If I could get him to do anything by himself, it's be a miracle!

I don't ask mine to help me. I like doing things my way. He does his part by cooking. I can cook, but not the way he can as he's a chef. I do the dishes, because I have a system of loading the dishwasher. If he did it, he would just shove everything in there and then force the door shut. Forget about doing laundry, he somehow managed to bleach one shirt out of a full load without using bleach. I been doing this for 11 years with two kids, and moving seven times, with having to do most of it five times. My husband works 40 hours a week, and on his days off. He will either mow the yard if it needs it, then cook dinner, and play with the girls. He does tell me a lot that it's time for our oldest to start helping out by doing chores, but it's like getting him to do it. I rather just do it myself, at least I know it's getting done right. I used to be a clean freak, where the house smelt of bleach and pine sol all the time. I don't go that over board anymore, since my fibromyalgia kicks in after I over do it. I give anything to go through my house and get rid of some stuff and clean from top to bottom like I used to.