Kissing on the first Date: Right or Wrong?
@brandonmagsino (639)
Philippines
April 9, 2007 3:55am CST
imagine: you just met someone in person, you went out watching a movie perhaps. or had dinner together. candlelight dinner maybe. hehe.. how romantic isn't it? hehe.. however like every other day, it has to end. its getting late already.. but before you and your date are going to part ways, a possible kiss? ( mind you on the lips in this case ).. yes, why not. or no way, maybe next time..?
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16 responses
@andreaskye (390)
• United States
11 Apr 07
For me this is truly simple, if you are feeling it, do it. If you are not, don't.
Of course I noticed you placed this under 'manilla" as a topic so geographically there could be way different cultural norms that I am not aware of.
But living smack dab in Nowhereville Tx I feel like it is certainly appropriate to kiss, even passionately if you want to, on the first date.
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@brandonmagsino (639)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
the filipino people are quite the conservative type. however, nowadays, things are changing i guess. P.D.A. a lot them already here. public display of affection. hahha..
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@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
3 May 07
if the feeling is mutual then there is nothing wrong. if a guy is a gentleman then he deserves a kiss.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
13 Apr 07
Kissing is very normal to me, everyday i may have goodbye kiss with my colleagues or with my friends. I think if it happened in the first date, it would be very romantic, in fact,things happened naturally, if everything went out smoothly, it was very normal to kiss with a guy, i mean even a deep kiss. It is only away to tell the guy that you like to share the time with him and thank you for giving me a good time, i would not call it is love but you might have good feeling to that guy and you would like to understand him more at least, when you feel that you want to kiss him,you should do it because you may not be able to find the same feeling next time.
Do not let the chance slipaway..lol.
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@marci3 (245)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
Well it is subjective...but it really depends on the type of kiss. If it's just a simple goodnight kiss (a peck on the cheek, perhaps), then it's alright. If it's a kiss that could lead to something more intimate, I think you (as a guy) would be patient enough to wait for the right time (and place). Who knows, it may be more worth it and more meaningful. :)
Have you kissed a girl on your first date? Just curious...'coz I did. haha!
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@sallukhan420 (84)
• Pakistan
14 Apr 07
Yeah,why not.If some one gets this oppurtunity,just avail it dude.don't let it go.Enjoy your life with kissing in it no matter on your first date.
@dilippatel (16)
• India
9 Apr 07
If you r not knowing that person then it is wrong.If you know then kissing on first date is right things.
If you want to kissing me then also no problem.
Are yar majak karu chu!
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@brandonmagsino (639)
• Philippines
9 Apr 07
very interesting comment you had there. so you mean to say, if you know that person than its simply ok to kiss him/her on your first date out? i would still feel kinda akward if you would ask me, unless both have agreed upon. hehehe
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@ntejani17 (742)
• Pakistan
4 May 07
Nothing wrong in that. If you are making a date you have the guts to kiss her. You know what. Tomorrow I am gona kiss a girl whome I have never touched and with whome I have never been to date.
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@brandonmagsino (639)
• Philippines
9 Apr 07
more than a kiss.. hmm, something tells me that it kinda sounds fishy to me.. hehehe.. peace out..
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@GergOnline (399)
• United States
3 May 07
my fiance and i kissed on our first date, the first one was just a second, 3 seconds later, we kissed for about a few minutes lol.....
ever since then we were unseperable! getting marriend next summer! june 28th!
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
13 Apr 07
Kissing is very normal to me, everyday i may have goodbye kiss with my colleagues or with my friends. I think if it happened in the first date, it would be very romantic, in fact ,things happened naturally, if everything went out smoothly, it was very normal to kiss with a guy, i mean even a deep kiss. It is only away to tell the guy that you like to share the time with him and thank you for giving me a good time, i would not call it is love but you might have good feeling to that guy and you would like to understand him more at least, when you feel that you want to kiss him,you should do it because you may not be able to find the same feeling next time.
Do not let the chance slipaway..lol.
@livewyre (2450)
•
28 Oct 07
It really depends on the cultural context and the individuals involved. Whereas in some cultures it may not be the correct thing to kiss on a first date, in others, you might be disappointed NOT to get a kiss.
I think in the UK, it would be normal to kiss, the kiss might tell you whether things were going OK or not. If the kiss were not met with the same enthusiasm, then you would get the idea that a second date may not be happening.....
@shooting_star (384)
• Philippines
25 Oct 07
I haven't kissed anybody on the first date, ever. If I liked the guy enough, I went on second, third, or more dates with him. Usually the guy initiates the kiss and I kiss back ONLY if I like him.
But kissing on a first date is a no-no for me. I'm not saying it's wrong for others to do it, but I don't want to do it myself.
