Do you validate your significant others feelings ???

i think that this may be something i need to be more aware of. at times i hear with out listening, which is not a good thing to do. I am becoming more aware of who i am and what i need to do to embrace those things that i need to upgrade! LOL

Hello Stiffler07! Yes....I must and I do validate Him and His feelings. We've been married quite some time now....Many years, I'm not saying how many! LOL This has been one of the major areas that has made such impact in our relationship. It's always been of the uptmost importance to make sure that His feelings are honored. this is one of the ways I honor Him and in return our children of course follow suit. there of course has been rebellion of sorts through the years from all including myself but this hasn't been profitable. As we've matured and grown together , we nurture each other and comfort each other. this is healing to us and health to us! God's Best xo .

Great topic! I had a problem with this is some respects. I would validate my bf's feelings to a point but then when my own self issues reared their head it would be impossible for me to validate him when I was seeking so much for myself. It truly is a very important part of any relationship, family, friends, mates whatever. And I have learned to do it more and more. But it's a long journey.