My husbands ex do not understand that he don´t want her anymore

Sri Lanka
April 9, 2007 7:45pm CST
We have live together in 2 years now ..just getting married last month and feeling good with things around us ..but I suppose everyone have some kind of ghosts under the bed or in a corner or whatever. Our ghost is my husbands ex, she do not understand that he tell her over and over again that he do not want flowers ,sms,cards, or phonecalls from her. Then she feels ignored from him and can´t have his attention then she start and call his mother for diffrent reasons she make up in her mind. We have change phonenumber just because of her but don´t ask me how she get the new one..we can´t go on and change that all the time ffs. My husband feels more uncomfortable then I do he starts to tlking about move away but I just think that it dosen´t help and move away and run from the problem in that way, why would we need to move from our friends his family and so on there must be some way and make her understand that she is not welcome to be around. What do u people think ? What hade you done ?
1 response
mizrak07
@mizrak07 (557)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
For me, running away is not the best solution for this kind of situation. Why would you sacrifice being close to your family and friends just so you can get away from her. By doing that you are giving her the satisfaction that she has the power to affect your relationship. It looks like his ex-girlfriend has a stalking behavior, and the best way to handle people with this kind of personality is to ignore them but not run away from them. Also explain the whole situation to your family and friends as they are the best people who could support you. Maybe it will help a lot if her own family is aware of the situation.